A domestic discipline marriage is one in which one partner in the marriage is given authority over the other and has the means to back the authority, usually by spanking.
A Christian Domestic Discipline marriage is one that is set up according to Biblical standards; that is, the husband is the authority in the household. The wife is submissive to her husband as is fit in the Lord and her husband loves her as himself. He has the ultimate authority in his household, but it is tempered with the knowledge that he must answer to God for his actions and decisions. He has the authority to spank his wife for punishment, but in real CDD marriages this is taken very seriously and usually happens only rarely. CDD is so much more than just spanking. It is the husband loving the wife enough to guide and teach her, and the wife loving the husband enough to follow his leadership. A Christian marriage embodies true romance and a Christian man a true hero.
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Spanking can be part of an enjoyable sex life - but all that shit about biblical standards, one partner having "authoritay" (a la Eric Cartman), etc., etc., would just turn me off sex forever. Yuck!
He has the authority to spank his wife for punishment, but in real CDD marriages this is taken very seriously and usually happens only rarely. CDD is so much more than just spanking
Fucking domestic violence is good promoter of the week .Fucking regular Don King ,I love to see the look on you stupid face on the day when the cops show up at your fucking door and you preach that line of bullshit to them
This site was discussed in detail on reddit some weeks ago. The original response was, well, "WTF?!". After some discussion the consensus opinion seemed to be that it's a disguised BDSM/spank pr0n site for fundies.
The language of this website is hilarious. First they say that it's one fo the partners, and then they speak about the husband. First they advocate domestic violence and then they say it´s rare, as if they could read everybody's mind and be into the lives of everybody. It's ridiculous. Women don't have to be "disciplined" and God is not going to spank the husband. If it's not a spoof, I hope the authorities take a step forward. They are justifying domestic violence.
Yes, because women of course don't really count as adults, so they must "guided and taught" by men just like five-year-olds. Ugh. How could any woman be happy in a relationship in which her husband sees her as infantile?
"It is the husband loving the wife enough to guide and teach her, and the wife loving the husband enough to follow his leadership."Not loving her enough to consider her a full human being, not enough to not rule over her, not enough to not beat her, mind you, but just loving her enough to force his opinions on her and enforce them with violence.
"In real DD marriages it is very real..........". This no true Scotchman feature is even more incredible for me, for they are basing all the website in the fact that they're enabled to do so, unlike other confessions. It's like going to a burger where only serve veg dishes. And the fact that the husband "has to respond of his actions before God" is ultimately disgusting. He can dominate other people and be unreasonable because, you know, God is not going to spank him. For no good reason, you see.
So let me understand. Women have no control over their lives from birth, their father must decide that. Their father can marry them to whoever they want and neither parties have any say in this, espcially the woman. The husband is now allowed to abuse his spouse and the wife cannot file for a divorce. How the hell is this moral or even right?
This is actually scary. I wish this guy had married my mom. Heh, yeah, he would have beaten and trashed her, but when he went to sleep... well, let's just say he'd wake up in a nice relaxing pit of HELLFIRE!
Please make the Christians get out of the BDSM community. They're perverting the glorious bond of trust, respect, and often potent love with their Christian aspect. They're oversimplifying Domestic Discipline relationships, and giving the community a bad name.http://www.domsubfriends.com/library/bd-v-ab.shtml
This is a soft-core porn site. If you're into spanking, you'll like it with or without the "christian" bullshit.
I guess its designed for people who want to indulge their fetish while remaining "holy."
Basically, it's BDSM with a Christian twist. I see nothing wrong with it as long as it's consensual. If this advocates that a man has the right to hit his wife even if she doesn't want to be, then it's sickening.
But, I wonder, how many of you guys would oppose something like this if the sexes were reversed? I've a feeling no one would even care if this were about a woman having the dominant role and given the right to hit her husband if he messes up.
Assume nothing, Sanrio90. I wouldn't stand for someone hitting her husband because he "messed up". My husband and I are partners, and everyone makes mistakes.
I know it's a shock, but feminism is about the radical notion that women are human, not subservient to men, not superior to them.
So, a Christian Domestic Discipline marriage is one where the Lord is the authority and the husband is submissive to Him? Sounds like a gay marriage to me...
Treating your wife as a student is hardly romantic; it's creepy. I follow my husband's leadership when it comes to engineering, calculations, building stuff, and he follows my leadership when it comes to gardening, cooking, following assembly instructions.
"A Christian marriage embodies true child-molestation and a Christian man is a true pedophile."
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So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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