Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that life is an accident--a cosmic joke--and has no real meaning or purpose, his distant relatives were monkeys, morality can be made up as you go along to fit your wants and desires of the moment, and each person is only accountable to himself alone for what he does or doesn't do--would you trust him with your daughter?
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Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that you need to believe that some guy who died 2000 years ago is the son of god, and Jeebus died for his sins, and no matter what he does wrong, since he believes in Jeebus, he will be going to heaven when he dies.
Let's not forget that this is the same god who is a hypocritical, genocidal, murderous, maniacal dictator.
Would you trust him with your daughter? (or son, if both of them so choose.)
A guy is going to come up to your door, tell you there are no morals, then ask to take out your daughter? WTF?
Anyway, better than the people who say that rape is okar, like all the aplogoists above this post.
Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that life is an accident--a cosmic joke--and has no real meaning or purpose, his distant relatives were monkeys
I'll agre with him up to this point.
morality can be made up as you go along to fit your wants and desires of the moment
This will be the reason he can't get anywhere near my daughter.
each person is only accountable to himself alone for what he does or doesn't do
And I'll partly agree with this part. As long as you are not hurting antone you can do as you please.
If I want to do a acid trip or drink an entire bottle of scotch on one evening I should be allowed to do so as long as others aren't bothered by me.
<<<Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that life is an accident...>>>
An "accident" in the sense that we are here due to pure chance? I'd remind him that chemical reactions are not random. Would you prefer that he tells me I was made out of dirt by a magic sky fairy?
<<<...a cosmic joke...>>>
If he said this, I'd suspect he's a whacko Christian trying to "convince" me his sky fairy is real.
<<<...and has no real meaning or purpose...>>>
I'd suggest treatment for depression. Your life has whatever purpose you want it to! Would you prefer that he tells me that his, my, and my daughter's purpose in the universe is to kiss God's ass and blindly obey his demands?
<<<...his distant relatives were monkeys...>>>
This is factually true, but I'd wonder why he was telling me this. Would you prefer that he tells me that my daughter is his cousin and he intends to date her? (If the flood story were true, dating her would likely qualify as incest!)
<<<...morality can be made up as you go along to fit your wants and desires of the moment...>>>
If he said this, I wouldn't trust him anywhere near my daughter. If I could, I would teach him that morality is all about looking after each other. Would you prefer that he tell me that it is moral for him to rape my daughter provided that he pays me a fee and marries her afterwards?
<<<...and each person is only accountable to himself alone for what he does or doesn't do...>>>
I wouldn't trust him. We all have some leeway over what we can do, but we are all obligated to respect certain rights that others have. If he doesn't, he will be held accountable to the rest of society.
<<<...would you trust him with your daughter?>>>
No. However, since this person is obviously a straw atheist, I would let him date my straw daughter.
Funnilly enough, the young men showing up on my doorstep trying to explain things to me, have mostly been Christian, not Atheist.
"would you trust him with your daughter?"
That's not your decision to make. It would be YOUR DAUGHTERS decision to make. If she is old enough to get married, she is old enough to make her own decisions. The only reason she might be unable to make such decisions is because a sexist control freak like yourself has raised her to not be independent and brainwashed her into thinking that she cannot fend for herself or make her own decisions.
I'm an atheist, not an idiot.
I do not believe life is a "cosmic joke."
Each individual gives meaning to his/her life through his/her actions and relationships.
I *do* believe humans and monkeys are related. I believe all life is related. It may offend your delicate Xian sensibilities, but you share about 50% of your DNA with the nearest tree.
No, each person is responsible to himself and his relatives and his friends and his society and the world-wide community. Think about it, Dumdum. It's harder than just playing up to your imaginary God.
Yes, I might trust him. I would examine more of his character than just whether he believed in your "God" or not. In fact, believing an ancient fairy tale to be fact would certainly have to weigh against him.
Probably not. Wouldn't have any problem with the bits about life being an accident or simian ancestry, but the bits about morality would be a red flag (as would be the door-to-door preaching, even if in the name of No God). I'd have to get to know the guy better - there might be hope for him - but my immediate reaction, based on the morals thing, would be no.
On the other hand, door-to-door preachers of any religion are far less likely to get my trust - they're probably an irrevocable "no" unless they become non-fundies.
(This, of course, assumes we're talking about high-school age daughters. Once she's an adult, it's her decision - though my advice, if asked for [and, admittedly, possibly even if not asked for], would be the same as above.)
If I tried to keep any man from my imaginary daughter, I'd bet she'd disown me and wouldn't talk to be for weeks.
It's sometimes good that my kids are all imaginary; they are so much easier to raise than real life kids.
I'd like to think that I raised my daughters to be smarter than to want to pair off with an admitted sociopath. Yes, the system of morality you described is consistent with sociopathy. However, not all atheists are sociopaths. I am proof of this.
I would further add that not all sociopaths are atheists. RaptureReady seems to be proof of this.
(emphasis added):
"Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that life is an accident--a cosmic joke--and has no real meaning or purpose, his distant relatives were monkeys, morality can be made up as you go along to fit your wants and desires of the moment, and each person is only accountable to himself alone for what he does or doesn't do--would you trust him with your daughter? "
Compared to, say, Tony Alamo, Billy James Hargis, Earl Paulk, Joe Barron, Stephen Green, Albert Odulele, and David J. Stewart...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony_Alamo
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Christian_evangelist_scandals
http://davidjstewartexposed.blogspot.com/
...then the answer is yes. How many prominent Atheists have been exposed as child abusers, nay, paedophiles? You tell me.
Well, suppose a young man shows up on your doorstep and explains to you that life is an accident--a cosmic joke--and has no real meaning or purpose, his distant relatives were monkeys, morality can be made up as you go along to fit your wants and desires of the moment, and each person is only accountable to himself alone for what he does or doesn't do--would you trust him with your daughter?
Wait, why the hell would a guy show up on the doorstep to take a girl out and then just randomly tell her parents all that stuff? I mean, that would pretty much ensure he wouldn't be going on a date. There's no way he'd be that stupid. >_>
Funny, I'd call that boy out on his shit, and I'm an atheist. See, I actually believe in the value of human life without needing to be terrified of an imaginary friend first. I help people because it's the smart thing to do; It builds a healthier community, a happier civilization, and it ensures longer-term prosperity for everyone.
What's your excuse? Oh right, you'll be "tortured for all eternity after you die" with zero punishment in this life. You have less of a reason to be a decent human being, and that, is why we have the Anders Breiviks of the world, the Timothy McVeighs, the Pope killing millions upon millions through AIDS denialist tactics...
I believe there's a little parable about the log in your own eye before the splinter in your neighbour's...
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