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[I just don't want to be in that room when you start telling that little girl that she should of done more not to be raped by her father.]


Amazing how many people are so quick to jump to 'ITS RAPE YOU CANT BLAME HER SHES A PERFECT INNOCENT ANGEL' without even considering that she had means to change the situation.

The girl is helpless the first time. I can understand why she would not want to scream and potentially invite harm or escalate the situation. However if she isn't locked in the house 24/7, she has a way to avoid a repeat incident.

If she decides that keeping her family together is more important than stopping it, she's responsible for staying in that situation.

If she's not strong enough to tell anyone, she's responsible for staying in that situation.

If she is worried about her future after reporting it, and doesn't do so as a result, she's responsible for staying in that situation.

The girl need simply tell a teacher or safe adult so that the authorities can be contacted and she'll be removed from the situation.

If she knows she can make it stop and chooses not to for fear of how her situation could change, she's essentially become a prostitute. She's trading abuse for security.

You can't fault a 10-year for being incapable of handling a situation like this, but you can't pretend that they didn't have a way out either. The belief that they have no responsibility and no way out is what lets this kind of thing last for years.

You can be in the right all you want about your behavior after you get raped, it's not going to undo the rape. Police aren't omnipotent, and until the day they are, you are the primary person in charge of your own safety.

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