Submitters note: See here for section 2: Normie misconceptions

Many misconceptions among both incels and normies here, explained

Incel misconceptions:

-nowadays society is degenerate and shallow : No, Human nature is shallow. Its not a societal/cultural thing, its hardwired in our instincts. "mother" nature wants ugly (aka,genetically inferior) guys to perish, so humans are wired to discriminate, shun, and hate ugly people. In fact, society is the thing that keeps this from happening in a much more extreme manner.

-I want/deserve sex/get laid : Many incels think that what they desire is the carnal act of sex. Its not the sex, its the acceptation and validation that comes from knowing you are capable of attracting someone enough to have sex. Having sex means you arent unattractive. Most incels that finally have sex realize this, its not the act, its what having sex means.

women value douchebaggery more than being kind : wrong, women value looks and not being mentally retarded, personality is irrelevant. A kind chad will mop the floor with a badboy incel dating-wise.

women care about money : wrong, thats beta provider thing. They care about attractiveness. If you are attractive, you can get girls even if you tell them you have no home and are a street beggar.

I am well adjusted, have a good job, live on my own, and girls will date this guy that smokes weed all day, only works sometimes at mcdonalds parttime and is generally a lazy bum : Job and status don't matter unless you are a famous artist. This is very similar to the former misconception about money.

Women rights shoudl be revoked/should have a religious-patriarchal society to keep women under control : Whats the point on having women obligated to be with you agaisnt their will while you know that they despise you. Even if you get a wife this way, if she is not attracted to you you are still incel. Inceldom is about being unwanted, not about having sex: arranged marriage and hookers don't count.

women are evil : No, nature is evil, because all the hypergamy and shit is really instinctual behavior. Its the same as calling a pack of wild dogs evil for ripping a impala to shreds to eath it alive, when its nature which gives the dogs hunger and hardwired instincts. Nature is the root of all evil.