Considering killing myself in front of my parents if I don't get my first girlfriend and sex by 21
I hate them for having me and not raising me to be the best I could be. My father coddled me too damn much. I can't do things for myself all the time. I'm too weak and ugly and spineless. A good dad puts his kid into sports, whips him into shape, and teaches him to be a true, masculine man. My dad didn't do that. My stepmother has more balls than he does.
It would be an act of revenge, to scar them for life. If they really loved me like they claim they do, they would not have had me.
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On one hand, it is terrible that a human being experiences self-loathing on that level.
On the other hand, get a grip! Nobody (well, with very rare exceptions, I will give you that) leads a perfect life. At some point, take responsibility for yourself. Parents may screw up their child's education. He should be able to actually do something about it: after all it is his life to live and decide on.
If you know you can't do things for yourself, don't you think it's finally time to learn? Most people who can't do anything for themselves usually don't have that self-realization.
At any rate, you're not even 21 yet so you haven't even begun to experience life.
Fucking Waaaah! Kid, this is some seriously stupid shit. All this because you're a horny teen that hasn't gotten laid? I was a goth nerd with no prospects and I was never this bad...
At least you acknowledge you have some flaws. More than most incels are capable of (other than 'ugly', which is purely subjective).
Why traumatize your parents for life for you not finding a girlfriend yet? Lots of people haven't had sex by 21.
You wish your dad had beaten you senseless on a regular basis?
My dad didn't put his kids into sports (he's a university teacher), nor did he whip any of us (girls or boys) into shape. He taught us (again, girls and boys) to be decent, hardworking and inquisitive. By thirty, all of us were self-supporting and in steady relationships.
Doing things for yourself is something you can practice and become better at over time.
How could they have loved you if they hadn't had you?
why does anybody value sex that highly? i was a virgin until 25, and can't recall ever being half that whacko about it at the time. nor did it seem that big of a deal after, either. is this the result of some sort of hormone imbalance?
regardless, somebody ought to point these incels at the MGTOW crowd. that lot may be hateful misogynistic bastards, but at least they get ONE thing right; to live one's life for the sake of validation from other people is to waste it. sex with another human might be a fun pastime, but if it's something you decide whether to continue or end your own very life over, then you need to fix your focus and start living for your own sake instead.
We really need to create Incels Say the Darndest Things.
As for this guy, he's the typical incel loser. I wish I could feel sorry for him, but I can't. He's blaming the world because he hasn't gotten his dick wet and he's still under 21? Dude, I was a fucking US Army Airborne Ranger and I still had to deal with being shy around young women. I never played sports as a kid (aside from a couple of years of being really bad at soccer)and much of my childhood was spent being the bookish target of every bully in school. I got over it. I eventually found a girlfriend and learned to handle an adult relationship.
But no, the incels all seem to think that pussy should be delivered by FedEx and if they aren't getting laid four times a day by age 15 it's a conspiracy.
You're not even 21 yet? And you've given up on life already? Don't be an ass. My husband was a virgin until he was 26 - but made up for it after that. And you want to punish your parents for ....being normal? You need real help. Please, get some. Sex isn't the problem, and lack of good looks isn't the problem. The "ugly" is between your ears. Get counseling.
Considering killing myself ... You need help; if you try it yourself,
you'll probably fuck that up, too. Shoot your nose off, for example.
And you're ugly enough already.
My stepmother has more balls than he does.
No shit. How many does she have?
HEY DUMBASS, GUESS WHAT!
IF YOUR DAD DIDN'T TEACH YOU ALL THIS SHIT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO KNOW, YOU CAN VISIT THE MIRACULOUS ORACLE CALLED GOOGLE AND TEACH YOURSELF!
If you don't do this, you have no one to blame for your failures but yourself.
Also, can we PLEASE have the "Sexists Say The Darndest Things" section already? I'm getting mighty tired of the FSTDT section being cluttered up with this stuff, because it's a pain in the butt if I just wanna read regular ol' fundie stuff.
If you really wanted to kill yourself, you would've done it already
Also, second on the sexists say the darnedest things as well. It would clean up the incel quotes.
Okay, as someone who has contemplated suicide himself (don't ask), I'm not going to mock this. Instead, get help OP. Seriously, not getting laid is not a reason to kill yourself. Having loving parents is not a reason to kill yourself either. You claim your parents don't love you, but perhaps it is you who does not love them. Killing yourself out of spite is a very, very mean thing to do to a loved one.
Look, I'm 24 and still a virgin myself and never had a girlfriend. Does it suck? Well, there are certainly more pleasant things out there, sure. But this really isn't a reason to kill yourself! You want to get laid that much? Go out and improve yourself. Stop acting like a stereotypical incel and blaming everybody else for your own problems. Because that does not solve anything.
And no, being a virgin is not the reason I contemplated it. But I do know what it's like to suffer from self-loathing and a severe lack of confidence in yourself. That's why I'm currently getting help and working as hard as I can to improve myself and build up some confidence while I still can .
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Also, yeah, a "sexists/incels say" section would be a lot better. The incel posts are clogging up everything lately.
I'd really like to know where this "A good dad puts his kid into sports, whips him into shape, and teaches him to be a true, masculine man." bullshit is proven right. The fact is puny weak people don't go into sports, not that sports makes you a he man masculine idol. I do know a large part of is is blustering bullshit but I never fell for it or a lot of guys I grew up with.
Here's what you do ass, like most sports people, fans, bikers or tough guys everywhere. Talk shit and lie about how great you are all the time. Works for some. You elected one recently with that childish thinking.
If I believed you're serious, I would (a) implore you to get counselling, and (b) to get some perspective: Sex isn't everything. At your age, you're thinking with your little head more than with your big one and that may be the source of this ridiculous post.
Since I'm sure you're not serious, my advice is far different: Remember to wear a GoPro...and do a back-flip as you jump.
Yikes. I'm sorry that you currently hate yourself so much, but your parents likely do love you very much,and wanted a child and so they had you.
You don't need to focus or obsess about this "real" masculinity concept because it doesn't' exist.
Try looking towards improving yourself and your attitude first as that seems to be the real problem here. You're not entitled to sex or a relationship.
Learn some shit. Read some books. There's a lot of things out there to help you. You live better than the billions of humans that have come before you so USE that INFORMATION to BETTER yourself.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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