The homosexuals will tell you about a guy they know that was married with kids and one day woke up and discovered he was homosexual. They have no problem with that.
Why can’t the opposite happen?
The fag lobby is, or so it appears to me, in violation of the latest leftist bandwagon, gender fluidity.
It isn’t just homosexuals finding a religion that have this happen. The leftist mayor of Ew Yuck City, Michael Bloomberg’s wife is a former lesbian.
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Good thing I never got on the gender fluid bandwagon then. People are gay, straight or bi. Some identify one way only to later admit to themselves they're another, but this is overwhelmingly straight to gay/bi. Gays and bisexuals often come to discover their sexuality on their own, without feeling forced to conform to a majority straight society.
Why can’t the opposite happen?
Who's saying it can't? There was a woman I worked with once who went from dating women to dating men. (Unfortunately, not me....lol) Either she came to realize she was truly heterosexual, or maybe more likely, she was bisexual.
The real homosexuals that I know tell me nothing of the sort. They might tell me about a guy or gal who was forced to pretend to be straight, to marry someone of the opposite gender, and have kids with that person, in order to not be ostracized or killed. Then the times changed and society became more open to homosexuality and the guy or gal decided to finally live THEIR life, THEIR way.
There are stories about gay people deciding to quit their marriage to a person of the same gender and go marry a person of the opposite gender and have kids with that person, too. Sometimes they are "born again", who decides to conform completely with their new lifestyle choice.
You've never heard about bisexuals, have you Fai-Fai?
Gender fluidity has little to do with whom you are attracted to. You may be born with the body of a woman, but the mind of a man. Your early adult life you are attracted to men, then you transition to live fully as a man, and you are still attracted to men. First you were (in some people's view) straight, then you were gay (in the same people's view), although you didn't change preference.
The homosexuals will tell you about a guy they know that was married with kids and one day woke up and discovered he was homosexual. They have no problem with that.
Why can’t the opposite happen?
Because it doesn't happen like that with homosexuals either. Long before they come out, they struggle with the social pressures before they get up the courage stand up and say "enough of the lie". However, it's people like you that keep the social pressures out there. Thankfully, people like you are slowly fading into history.
The fag lobby is, or so it appears to me, in violation of the latest leftist bandwagon, gender fluidity
Yes, so Oscar Wilde was married with two boys, but would you call him straight? HARDLY! So it was with many of them in the old days, they "did the right thing", still do sometimes. Then discover their true, closeted selves at a later date, and can't lie about it anymore.
I thought the term "compulsory heterosexuality" came from Judith Butler, but it was apparently coined by someone named Adrienne Rich, way back in 1980.https://www.quora.com/What-is-compulsory-heterosexuality
Yes, bisexuals certainly exist {I should know}. I don't know about Diana Taylor, she's Bloomberg's partner not wife, but the first thing I wondered about is if she followed the money.
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I've had homosexuals tell me about why they are late, about what they saw happen in a shop, about their day at work. I've even had a homosexual tell me a story about two football players and a goat.
Clearly, the homosexuals that I know are not the definitive article.
I've never known anyone personally, but I'm guessing those married gay guys didn't just wake up one morning and decide they were gay. More likely it was something they struggled with since puberty, and with society until recently being anti-gay it was something they had to hide and forced them to get married to a "beard" in order to look normal. Seeing as how, outside of homophobes' imaginations, nobody is condemning anyone for being straight it's not likely a gay man in a relationship is going to decide that he's been straight all along, especially since if someone is straight the choice to marry a woman has been available the whole time. True, maybe he might be bisexual and decide that he's more interested in women and decide he doesn't want to be in a same sex relationship any more. But for the most part it seems that it's always been gay men or women in heterosexual relationships who finally come to terms with their true sexuality.
If Christianity wasn't known to encourage gays from being who they really are, I might actually had bought this. I think it's fucked up that you think suppressing their natural attraction, Jesus Camps, and being celibate is a good idea.
"The homosexuals will tell you about a guy they know that was married with kids and one day woke up and discovered he was homosexual."
Nope. Never heard that.
I have heard men, and also women, married and often with children, one day announce that they were 'NO LONGER LIVING THE LIE.'
I've never heard it going the other direction, but I wouldn't imagine there would be that much drama... Moving towards what society thought of as 'normal' for so long isn't a headline. Dog bites man sort of stuff.
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