[A fourteen year old discusses her abusive father, gets loads of crap from Christians:"He's hit me, and done nothing, while I was crying, but say, sorry rachel, and do nothing else, he's called me fat because me and my older sister were joking around about my weight, he said "it was for my own protection", that time, he made me go from laughing to crying. he FAVORS my little sister, that's right a "christian" man who favors???!!?"]
Mrs. Citizen :):
From what I got from from this, is a father who is trying his best.
and you are a christian girl who seems to hate? No one is perfect, forgiveness is key, I am not saying you have to spend time with him, just respect him and forgive his actions. Hate's a burden, and it hurts both of you.
Once again, Im not trying to be rude, but you need to look at yourself. You are being awefully self-righteous. People make mistakes, People sin.
Chrissy: I don't mean to be condescending in any kind of way, but at your young age, it's hard to understand the reasons behind why your father says or does things that are in your best interest. He has personal struggles he goes through, that you might not be clued in on. I'd suggest trying to have a more open and relaxed relationship with your dad, it sounds like you're always on edge around him.
Jo-Mama: Sorry but I dont believe everything you are telling us. There is something really wrong with your story.
I have a problem with you ripping your father apart to pieces. The way you describe him - he's the devil himself, and that's where you lose credibility.
I think you need to be more honest here.
Jo-Mama, Mrs. Citizen, Chrissy, Christian Teens of Myspace 44 Comments
[9/30/2006 12:00:00 AM]
Fundie Index: 7
Submitted By: Sierra
That's fucked up. As for the victim, she should go see a cop. Or another adult. Not some shitty Christian site.
9/30/2006 8:55:11 AM
Abusive parents? Never!
Specially since they're christians...
9/30/2006 8:57:14 AM
I don't know if it's just because I'm tired, but I can't find words for this. It's horrifying...how could you possibly take this girl's story and turn it around so that she's at fault?
You three? You are horrible human beings.
9/30/2006 8:57:31 AM
How typical... \"It's not what I want to hear, I must discredit it at all costs!\"
*Although to be fair, they didn't suggest stoning her to death for disrespecting her parents*
9/30/2006 9:07:03 AM
9/30/2006 10:26:05 AM
Blame the victim, same old, same old.
9/30/2006 10:37:10 AM
This girl is a real idiot. So, forgive a very stupid abusive and insensitive father,because you have loudly proclamed that he´s the authoritative figure. Isn´t he the sinner, the one to admonish? and be harsh and judgamental with her, because she has broken into pieces your fantasyland?, yes, the guys in the forum are right. Even if Jesus asked us not, being judgamental is a part of their ethos. And of course, when it´s convenient to them, they ask the \"others\" not to be. Hypocrisy to the cube.
9/30/2006 11:15:59 AM
Wolf O'Donnell (SWHQ)
These are horrible people. Is it any wonder I reject Christianity if it's full of sickos like these?
9/30/2006 12:01:31 PM
Blaming the victim makes you the lowest form of life on this planet.
9/30/2006 2:19:29 PM
I sincerely hope none of these respondents are parents, or if they are, their children better have been taken away from them at a young age and placed in a safe household.
Blaming the victim just proves you are a pathetic waste of oxygen.
9/30/2006 2:22:13 PM
If this isn't a prime candidate for a \"Blame The Victim\" award, then I've never seen a prime candidate.
9/30/2006 2:43:28 PM
Obviously there's a lot wrong with all of the replies, but I think what struck me most is Mrs Citizen's \"You are being awfully self-righteous.\" Excuse me??? She is awfully self-righteous? She's a 14 year old kid who gets mentally and physically abused, and you go and tell her her father is \"trying his best\", that she \"should forgive him\", and that \"people make mistakes\" and you have the nerve of calling her self-righteous. Bloody hell, can you be glad that hell doesn't exist, otherwise there'd be a comfy beach lounger at the lake of fire with your name on it...
9/30/2006 3:11:37 PM
I sincerely hope that this girl realizes that all of those people are full of shit, because I know what it's like to go through being abused and blaming myself for it.
9/30/2006 3:30:03 PM
Jo-Mama, Mrs. Citizen, Chrissy- you have FAILED at being Human. Please turn in your badge to the nearest officer and leave the human race as soon as possible...
9/30/2006 4:43:28 PM
The Watcher (Formerly Amigone201)
Jo-Mama, Mrs. Citizen, and Chrissy, you're all teetering on the edge of a crime, and probably already have committed some type of tort. Please can we take legal action?
(And yes, seconding Mrs. Citizen calling this girl self-righteous as the most apalling part of this entry)
9/30/2006 6:02:01 PM
Napoleon the Clown
Die in a fire you abuse encouraging cunts.
9/30/2006 6:10:28 PM
What a sack of assholes. At the very least they should recommend this girl get some outside help. After all, none of these people know anything but the girl's story. They don't know the father, the family, the circumstances... anything but what she has told them. An investigation by concerned authorities is the least this girl deserves.
9/30/2006 6:44:49 PM
Someone just added, \"i kinda of feel like this is dipping a bit into the stereotype of christian hypocrisy.\"
These people are so very, very, sick and heartless. I felt so depressed after reading this last night. The girl has her profile set to private and I'm banned from posting so I had no way to write to her and tell her not to listen to those victim-blaming assholes.
9/30/2006 7:00:21 PM
This is a father who is \"trying his best\" and she's supposed to forgive him for the shit he does? Fuck that noise.
9/30/2006 8:11:05 PM
How do fundies keep coming up with well thought out advice?
9/30/2006 8:47:09 PM
I really don't know what to say. I feel so sad for this girl.
9/30/2006 9:33:47 PM
Is this the same Chrissy who was saying that homosexuals shouldn't be able to adopt children because children need a male and a female parent? And complaining that homosexuals could vote when her father couldn't because he had commited a non-violent felony?
9/30/2006 10:27:16 PM
Now, honey, I'm sure your father has a perfectly good reason for beating you and calling you fat. I think you're just trying to make it look worse than it is.
9/30/2006 10:36:58 PM
Quester, indeed it is.
9/30/2006 10:46:34 PM
My god, what is wrong with these people?
9/30/2006 10:56:28 PM