Let me guess. He's divorced. (Thrice?)
5/20/2007 4:18:34 PM
b. beau brinker
Burning Bed, anyone?
5/20/2007 5:23:39 PM
Ok, what if, after all, is the husbands fault?, isn't he the one who has to wonder why the marriage is breaking into pieces?
9/9/2007 7:52:08 AM
Please understand that I believe a wife who is being physically abused should leave if she feels threatened; but not divorce.
So, it's okay to leave her children and belongings with her abusive husband as long as she gets to temporarily recuperate?
Such a wife needs to sincerely ask herself "why" her husband is being abusive--there's ALWAYS a reason.
Yes, there is a reason. It's because the husband is a selfish, abusive, self-absorbed sexist monster who belongs behind bars.
Some husbands are abusive; but 90% of all divorces are needlessly caused by a sinfully proud wife who causes grief for her husband, and he gets mad.
As opposed to sinfully proud husbands who cause grief for their wives? And for your information, there are many reasons for divorces. 90%, my foot.
A wife who refuses to be submissive causes the marriage to become a two-headed monster.
Correction: a wife who refuses to be submissive causes the fundie husband to become a two-headed monster because she is not conforming to what his idea of what a woman should be.
Someone's got to be in charge, or there will be continual conflict.
Or, you know, you could try such things like sharing, cooperation, compromise. All of which are completely alien concepts to you, I bet.
In fact, Ephesians 5:22 commands a wife to obey her husband as unto Jesus Christ, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." How many wives today obey this Biblical command? It would be like looking for a needle in a haystack to find such a woman today in America.
Welcome to the 21st century, David.
No wonder Solomon said in Ecclesiastes 7:28, "One man among a thousand have I found; but a woman among all those have I not found." Solomon couldn't find one woman, out of all his wives and the women he had known, whom he could trust with all his heart.
So why the heck did he have all those wives and concubines if he couldn't trust them "with all his heart?" Please, if he really wanted a true companion, he would have taken the time to find his soulmate instead of picking out random women, locking them in pens like animals, and only allowing them to come out when it was their turn for bootycall.
There were many feminists in Solomon's time, just as there are today.
Really? Funny how the Bible never mentions them. In fact, I don't think the word feminist ever shows up.
Listen to what Solomon had to say about the rebellious feminists of his own time ... "And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleaseth God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her."
Seems like you were taken by a lot of women, eh, Solomon?
What a contrast from the virtuous wife of Proverb 31:28 ... "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her."
Yeah, well, in Proverbs it also stated that a woman could hold and maintain property. What do you have to say to that?
Which type of woman are you? What does your husband (or X-husband) have to say about you? God knows, and He does care, and you will have to give account for your laziness, carelessness, lies, deceitfulness, maliciousness, etc. You will give full account to God for all your words and actions. Matthew 12:36 warns, "But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment."
Which type of man are you? What does your wife (or husband - I will not resort to your pitiful insinuation) have to say about you? God knows, and He does care, and you will have to give account for your misogyny, stupidity, lies, deceitfulness, maliciousness, etc. You will give full account to God for all your words and actions. Matthew 12:36 warns, "But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment."
12/9/2007 5:21:12 PM
If my hubby was beating on me their would be no divorce; he would be dead and I would be living off of his Life Insurance.
12/14/2007 1:36:15 AM
Solomon was a cynical, paranoid assbite if he could only trust one other man besides himself. That man was more than likely his ghey l0v3r. The concubines were just a cover.
2/28/2008 11:38:05 PM
If the husband is the abused one, it would be better to focus on the husband, don´t you think?.
8/11/2009 7:14:15 AM
Hey David why not being a little more kind towards women! You say a woman should stay with an abusive husband? Here is a question for you David. Why dont you go back to H**L where you came from? Be kinder towards women or your going to wind up with 20...cats livng with you in a basement all alone. Here is my modest opinion of you David. You are a pedantic, pontificating, fugly pretentious b*****d, a belligerent old fart, a worthless steaming pile of cow dung, figuratively speaking.
12/30/2010 10:23:01 PM
12/31/2010 12:35:57 AM
"Davie apparently has a thing for young girls.
Follow the links."
Dead link. Here's what it was probably referring to:
In everything he 'denounces', as the above proves, he projects so much, he'd make the IMAX format obsolete. Davey-boy is the embodiment of the phrase 'Hypocrisy, thy name is Fundie'.
12/31/2010 12:14:53 PM
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." How many wives today obey this Biblical command? It would be like looking for a needle in a haystack to find such a woman today in America."
Well since most women in America do not submit to the Lord, then technically you could say that they do submit thmselves to their husbands as unto the Lord.
12/31/2010 1:25:32 PM
How many HUSBANDS today obey this biblical command?
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;"
If you want to follow the bible it goes both ways, stupid. Can't have one and not the other. The abuse you mentioned might have a something to do with the husband's actions, don't you think? Be A MAN STEWWART!
1/1/2011 3:47:51 PM
40% of domestic abuse victims these days are men.
Do the same rules apply to them? Is it their fault for not dominating over their wives enough?
2/20/2012 12:01:01 PM
A marriage is a partnership, a relationship. Nobody is in charge, you work together towards a common goal, each taking charge in the area he or she knows best. My husband appreciates when I take charge, and gets more frustrated when I don't have an opinion, than when I have a strong opinion.
If Solomon didn't find any woman he could trust with all his heart, then how come he had so many wives? I trust several men with all my heart; my husband, my father, my brothers. I also trust several women with all my heart; my mother, my late grandmother, my sisters-in-law.
2/20/2012 12:27:13 PM
1. That was from PAUL, not Jesus!
2.Perhaps you conveniently forgot Ephesians 5:21 "Submitting unto ONE ANOTHER (emphasis mine) in the Lord." That tells me that the wife is not the only one that has to submit...the husband does too. Read your Bible COMPLETELY (100%) and THEN you can judge! Till then, STFU, you sick misogynistic bastard!!!
5/9/2012 3:11:01 PM