Your also not a virgin anymore if you break your hymen with a sex toy, or if someone breaks it with their finger, etc.
[what if you are a man and you have masterubated?]
I didn't say anything about masturbation.
I'm talking about sex toys and girls letting someone who isn't their husband touch them inappropriately.
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My hymen was broken by someone else's fingers. That made it a lot easier to have hot steamin premarital sex later on. While you're whacking off to that idea, please try to think of a compelling argument for your prehistoric double standard, you arrant shitferbrains.
Now, sex toys are human beings?, this is new to me. Besides, what if you're born with no hymen, or if it's broken by other activities?, I know this idiot sames something about that in his post. However, gynecologist say otherwise and with his writting style, I have doubts over his "research".
Okay, I understand that many fundy men are so ashamed of their sexual ineptitude that they want to marry virgins who would not be able to compare their poor performance to that of any previous partner. But, now they're even jealous of inanimate objects? Man, this is sick!
Your also not a virgin anymore if you break your hymen with a sex toy, or if someone breaks it with their finger, etc.
So if someone else breaks it you are no longer a virgin? Okay, you are right on that point.
I'm talking about sex toys and girls letting someone who isn't their husband touch them inappropriately.
So a woman can have sex with her husband and stay a virgin? Who, who knew...
Seriously, you might want to see what you wrote previously before you go around saying what you meant in the post. Beyond the sheer stupidity and the previous encounters with this poster there is nothing all that fundy about the quote apart from the thing about virginity only applying to women.
I've heard that the hymen can often be broken without any directly sexual activity at all, for people with particularly active lifestyles. I guess all real, pure women should also refrain from sudden movements and strenuous exercise as well!
Excuse me, but how does anybody get to be thirty years old with absolutely no knowledge what-so-ever of sex? I mean no wonderfully embarassing parental talk, no sex-ed in school? Was he raised in a super-fundie monastery?
Brain_in_a_Jar: This is true. Possible TMI: I have no idea what happened to mine. Considering that I took ballet for a while and tried horseback riding a few times, I'm not too surprised, though.
Irene
This may surprise you all, but I'm not as annoyed by her definition of "virgin" as I am annoyed at her insisting that we define it at all. Why the hell "virgin?" Why must we insist on labeling everyone based on how much and what kind of sex they've had?
Do we label people who have eaten potatoes vs. those who have not?
"Your also not a virgin anymore if you break your hymen with a sex toy, or if someone breaks it with their finger, etc."
[what if you are a man and you have masterubated? ]
"I didn't say anything about masturbation.
I'm talking about sex toys and girls letting someone who isn't their husband touch them inappropriately."
raven55 had better not watch episode 12 of the anime series "Panty & Stocking (with Garterbelt)" if he knows what's good for him:
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Especially when you consider Panty's previous activities, warranting the appelation (right from ep. 1) 'Hoebag'.
There's a few things about human nature which tend to be repressed a lot, often through organised religion. The most obvious is sexuality, apparently since it's both pleasant and easily corrupted. Another is thinking, much for the same reasons. Though sexuality tends to evoke visceral reactions for reasons that I can't fathom. They often like to describe it in relishing yet disgusting and inaccurate detail, as seen in quite a few quotes on this site. It probably dates back to paranoia about the identify of parents: thousands of years old.
Why would you use a sex-toy if not for masturbation?
What does it matter, anyway? You can break your hymen horse-riding or cheer-leading, doing gymnastics, or simply be born without a hymen, or with such an insignificant fold that it doesn't even break during "missionary sex".
Nowadays, you can do a DNA-test, if you're unsure of the parentage of your children. That was one of the reasons in olden times to want to marry a virgin; then the children she would have would be yours. (Not the strongest reasoning there...)
Ah, see here's the thing, hymens don't break, they tear. If the hymen actually covered the vagina like most think they do then how does menstruation occur? It actually only slightly covers the vagina and is stretched during sex, though if you're going to fast then it tears. You can stretch it our by masturbating and being slow and using a ton of lube during your first time.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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