[sex is a perfectly natural, healthy thing, and it doesn't turn you into a whore.]
It is natural and healthy, when you are married not with different partners. And, if premarital sex doesn't make you a whore what does? :/
Does it make you a saint? hehehaha. :)
Also, she said:
"sex can always be special, even AFTER your first time"
The first time is ALWAYS the best and most memorable.
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Taking money or drugs in exchange for sex makes you a whore.
The first time is seldom, if ever, the best, but yeah, possibly the most memorable.
"The first time is ALWAYS the best and most memorable."
Bzzzt. WRONG. Personal experience tells me otherwise. I lost my virginity to a girl I'd known for a few weeks, then didn't see much of her after that. We only had sex the one time.
Now the most memorable sex experience of my life was with someone who I love from the bottom of my heart... And she was the 4th girl I slept with. Try again, and try not to waste your life... Please?
And, if premarital sex doesn't make you a whore what does? :/
Selling sex? Just a stab in the dark here.
The first time is ALWAYS the best and most memorable.
Or it could be awkward and unpleasant if you don't know what you're doing, which is very likely.
" ...The first time is ALWAYS the best and most memorable."
So says the 30-year-old virgin.
Speaking as a normal person, however, I can attest that the first time or even the first few times are not necessary that great - mainly because they're taking place among teenagers who don't really know what they're doing. It gets much better when it's between adults who (ahem) have more experience under their belts.
Premarital sex doesn't make you a whore, unless you're going to take money. And by the way, who was Mary Magdaleine?, exactly, a whore, so yes, it will make you a saint. And what about Hagar and Billah and all the handmaids in the Bible?, what about those prostitutes the Jewish couldn't live with?. Marriage is not a magic trick that makes sex wonderful. I know many cases of vaginismus and dysfunctions, which are the source of breakings. Don't judge what you don't know. And anyway man, your opinion of the first time is not corroborated. There are people, particularly women, who didn't enjoy it much. Ask any sex therapist.
My first time was the worst ever, including masturbation (at least I knew what I was doing!). It was "memorable" only because it was one of my top three most miserable, annoying, and frustrating life experiences.
If sex is never special again after your first time, you're doing it wrong.
Why on earth would two people with no real clue of what they're doing have the best, most memorable sex of their lives on their first time?
That's like saying that the first time you drive you could win the Indy 500 and it's all downhill from there. It doesn't make a damn bit of sense, since it's a skill one builds on through experience just like any other.
Hell I'm 27 years old and still a virgin, I'm female and I'm gay. Ok a bit TMI but I am scared to death of having it the first time.
I've heard it hurts like hell and then I heard it doesn't sooo...
But I am sure when I have sex it is going to be somewhat memorable, lol.
And, if premarital sex doesn't make you a whore what does?
Getting paid for sex, premarital or otherwise.
The first time is ALWAYS the best and most memorable.
Memorable yes. Best, no, as it was rape by a adult male family member.
The only reason sex within marriage is the push for religions is for inheritance rights. No man wanted someone else's kids getting his worldly goods.
They say to treat your body as a temple. But people go in and out of temples while they are being built and after they are built 24/7. Some stay in them for long periods of time. So, saying to treat one's body as a temple is saying you should have people going in and out of you from before birth and do it often and for long periods of time. That doesn't sound like no sex before marriage or no gay sex, now does it?
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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