Quote# 31704

“ In your book “Created to be His Help Meet,” you touched on one topic in one chapter, and I wonder if you have any further writings on it. It is in regard to inappropriate friendships between married women. I’ve noticed that in some friendships with other wives, they seem to have higher expectations of me emotionally than I am able to meet, to the extent that there has been a “break-up” when I can’t or won’t go any further in emotional closeness. It is very strange. I see wives drawn and encouraged to commit emotional adultery with other women, usually because they have told each other that their husbands are not equipped to meet all of their emotional needs; so form these emotional attachments that are beyond normal friendship. It would seem that they are betraying the intimacy they should have with their husbands by this type of friendship. What are your thoughts on this? ”
~ A Reader

Debi answers:
This type of emotional relationship between women is a facet of homosexuality. It is UGLY, filthy, and an unclean abomination. Break all such relationships off now, and consider yourself fortunate to have escaped.”

Reader/Debi, Created to be his help meet 44 Comments [11/28/2007 8:37:10 PM]
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The Watcher

It sounds like Debi supports a system where women have nowhere to turn except their husbands. This would create a seriously unhealthy, screwed up master/slave dependency. Not good at all.

11/28/2007 8:40:02 PM


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11/28/2007 8:48:12 PM


Wow. This website is the motherlode. With the discovery of this great a reserve, we should be able to stave off Peak Fail.

11/28/2007 8:59:15 PM

cool cats

Get off my planet Debi!

11/28/2007 9:01:36 PM


Theres that term "help meet" again, wtf does it mean?

11/28/2007 9:07:13 PM


Someone is taking the phrase "Going out with my girlfriends" way too seriously.

11/28/2007 9:11:55 PM

sze a

@whiteshark - it's a misinterpretation of a word.

Gen 2:2 And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.

It means a help suitable for him, but fundies seem to think it's a noun - a "help meet."

11/28/2007 9:14:50 PM


11/28/2007 9:25:38 PM


WTF?!!! Damn, does this font let me print larger? WTF? WTF AWARD of the Year. Personally, I think it's HEALTHY to have emotional relationships with other people outside of your marriage. It's not like your bitching about how your dear godly man treats you like a doormat to your best friend, then she hugs you, and next minute your eating her pussy.... Hmmmm.... Now i need to masturbate.

11/28/2007 9:26:04 PM


11/28/2007 9:26:46 PM


"emotional adultery"... That's a good one.

Also, methinks Debi needs some good Hot Dickings from Dr. Tran. Something tells me she is only like this because she can't get any.

11/28/2007 10:01:52 PM


Speaks from experience? Methinks the lady doth protest too much. Come here, Deb, I'll give you what you need...

11/28/2007 10:04:23 PM


People love eachother in different ways.

Many do want their mate to be their best friend.

So maybe they should go about it the right way, and have gone for a close friend in the first place.

Pretty fucking stupid to just ignore what's in front of you, go around looking for someone else and then trying to shape them in the previous image?

11/28/2007 10:19:32 PM


Clearly, women are so inherently sinful that even other women cannot associate with them.

11/28/2007 10:21:21 PM


No person can provide another person with everything they need emotionally. That's why we cultivate relationships with friends, family, and lovers.

11/28/2007 10:24:19 PM

Jake Steel

oh noes having emotions makes you teh gehyz!

11/28/2007 10:25:58 PM


If you decide to participate in "emotional closeness", can we watch?

What a work the pair of you are.

11/28/2007 10:32:52 PM


So needing more emotional intimacy and support than an emotionally distant husband supplies makes a woman a lesbian? That's very interesting, Debs.

Fall down a well, Debs.

11/28/2007 10:51:43 PM


... Women bonding and/or gossipping is... 'emotional adultery' and... 'homosexuality'?

I don't know about that.

It is harder to control people who have support of people ouside the society you control, I do know that however.

11/28/2007 11:25:44 PM


Further proof that christianity is psychologically unhealthy!

11/28/2007 11:27:59 PM


Oh, for-- I hate this bullshit about "emotional adultery" that apparently happens between all close friends as far as these psychos are concerned. Just because two people are extremely close doesn't automatically mean that they're romantically interested in each other. I've fallen asleep curled up in the arms of certain friends of mine, and vice-versa. We're not interested in each other, just very close.

It's healthy.

11/28/2007 11:33:31 PM



Best friend = Secret Lesbian Lovers only in the world of anime and manga.

11/28/2007 11:43:12 PM

becuase there's nothing more ... traumatising???? than lesbians. That's why no self respecting porn-studios would ever film such horrors. no one would buy that anyways.


just shut up and watch, jackass.

11/29/2007 12:09:13 AM

Brian X

That's pretty sick, there. Debi's promoting precisely the sort of relationship that most people consider severe emotional abuse.

11/29/2007 12:26:28 AM

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