BLACK WOMEN Dating and MARRYING WHITE MEN #2 Before I begin this post I would like to thank everyone for their response
to my previous threads.
the information in this post may not be suitable for all readers.
Reader discretions are advised. The Blackwoman will date, and as reported daily, will marry a white man. She finds in her relationship with the white man perhaps the answer to all her dreams and fantasies.
First, he is removed from the black experience, and brings a new set of rules to the involvement. Second, he represents the culmination of every movie and T.V. show she has ever seen featuring a gallant white beau who knows how to treat a woman and swoops in always coming to her rescue. Third, he is an alternative set of men whom sheBelieves can be utilized because of the non availability of Black men.
Now that there appears to be fewer Blackmen, and she can’t get along with any of them, she is perusing other races to see what she can see. When the Blackwoman gets with a white man she may manufacture a complete new set of vowels which she uses to construct her new light and airy “proper” voice. She irresistibly become ever so amused by his jokes and pretends to like the things he does.
She becomes an actress of sorts and she relaxes a bit because the white man does not know the full story of her failure with the Blackman. Since the white man does not know the ins and outs of Black intimacy he is more tolerant of her and they both enjoy the novelty. She can wear as much make-up as she desires and to the white man this is normal. While the Blackwoman is known to ignore a Blackman on a street corner, in an elevator or on the subway, she seems always ready with an eager appealing smile when a white man, especially one in a suit and tie, tries to make light conversation with her. She appears to be flattered and falls into crisp bright personality. Her smile is sometimes so instant it looks like a flash of sparkling white snow, blushing and appreciative.If she decides to date him, later on, she is seen to be overly affectionate in public. ThereMay be hugging, provocative kissing or fondling in public.She is willing to ignore many of the white man’s shortcomings regarding wardrobe, language, music, car, or job. She convinces herself that he is normal and she must accept him as he is, and above all he is just another man. When she is with him she thinks she is finally free.Free of the Blackman’s hassles and free of her own history. She is proud of the him in front of her family and friends or on the other extreme; she knows that her social integration relationship will not be accepted, so she keeps it a secret. He is considered special to her and automatically “knows how to treat a woman.”
Certainly better than a Blackman does-she thinks. CONCLUSIONThe Blackwoman believes that she has reached the ultimate pinnacle of personal developmental achievement when she arrives at the point of seriously considering dating a white man and if watched closely she can be seen acting out the mannerisms of white women. She has absolutely forgiven the white man for enslaving her people, and the white man has forgiven himself for enslaving Black people. But the poor Black woman has not forgiven herself for being a slave.
Farther, Myspace 26 Comments
[1/10/2008 8:28:45 PM]
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I'm not sure what this person is trying to say, but it makes the 'Whiteman' sound a hell of a lot worse then the 'Blackwoman'.
1/11/2008 6:42:58 AM
The Cynic Sage
The way he says it makes it seem like he's referring to superheroes.
1/11/2008 8:25:06 AM
And that is bad because...............?. Since when marrying outside your race is bad?, are Wentworth Miller or Halley Berry impaired or fucktards?, and what about Obama?. Ah yes, they're the offsprings of a white woman and a black man, apparently that doesn't count thanks to the men's double standards.
1/11/2008 9:00:37 AM
This guy sounds like he needs medication.
1/11/2008 12:50:55 PM
Is farther white or black?
1/11/2008 5:24:41 PM
His avatar is a black man, but I think that he has his issues................could you imagine him dating a white girl?, we'd be laughing. And tell all that to Eddie Murphy. Sorry man, but if you want beautiful women and you're not particularly gorgeous, you can't complain about gold-diggers, whatever their race(white women do that too)
1/11/2008 6:03:27 PM
Uh, thanks for that valuable insight, whatever it may be.
1/12/2008 1:05:54 AM
Wow... someone got burned. Perhaps there's a more constructive way to manage your anger?.. or embarrassment?
1/12/2008 4:24:17 PM
I imagine Mildred Loving (of Loving v. Virginia fame) would disagree with you.
1/12/2008 6:12:14 PM
"thereMay be hugging, provocative kissing or fondling in public.She is willing to ignore many of the white man’s shortcomings regarding wardrobe, language, music, car, or job."
Yeah, that's called love you moron.
1/13/2008 3:21:20 AM
It feels like the writing style of an original Dungeons and Dragons monster description.
1/13/2008 4:27:19 PM
What, is this supposed to be supporting racial seperatism or something?
P.S. Why doe he always capatalize black?
1/13/2008 7:08:44 PM
Putting al the other crap aside...
"...she may manufacture a complete new set of vowels..."
Besides A E I O U and sometimes Y what other vowels are there?
1/13/2008 9:37:26 PM
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1/15/2008 10:06:59 PM
Maester Seymour's Mother
Jacob: Eh, it's sometimes capitalised to refer to the race as opposed to the colour. It's the least of this post's problems.
1/18/2008 11:16:57 AM
So, you got dumped for a white guy?
1/19/2008 7:06:48 PM
Lol, wtf?! It's difficult for me to understand the point of this post. I can't even really tell if it's racist or not, since he/she seems to describe white men as treating women better, yet at the same time . . .
"She convinces herself that he is normal and she must accept him as he is, and above all he is just another man"
Is the author trying to imply that a white man is somehow not normal, and isn't just another man? I don't get it. Maybe I just fail to understand any of this because I don't live in a world of stereotypes where skin color determines behavior.
1/20/2008 3:36:25 PM
Happy MLK Day, bitch.
1/22/2008 1:29:15 AM
I think this guy is still implying that Black women all still want to be "The Masta's slave mistress."
So they aren't dating and marrying white men out of love, they're doing it because they think they deserve it?
So he's saying he didn't get dumped because of his own fault, it's because Black women want to be slaves to white men...
1/23/2008 12:34:29 AM
What's wrong with interracial dating?
And what's with the "all black women want white men" generalization? I can walk across my office and talk to someone that will confirm Farther to be full of shit.
MLK would slap this guy.
1/23/2008 9:18:32 PM
Black women decided to date white men when they met a guy like you.
1/24/2008 10:47:53 AM
"MLK would slap this guy."
-No, He was nonviolent
"the white man has forgiven himself for enslaving Black people."
-Now we have to forgive ourselves? I get really pissed off when people say things like that, I never enslaved anyone, that was my ancestors.
1/26/2008 3:51:04 PM
Assuming your ancestors were slave owners which were about 1 in 10ish people.
1/27/2008 6:18:45 AM