My son is already and adult and out on his own. He has chosen to do some things that we do not believe are in accordance to God's word. He is welcome to call or visit, but only as long as he respects our views and doesn't bring it back to our home. I can not control what he does out side of my home because he is living an adult life in his own home. I have told him that I love him, always point him back to God's word and His love when we talk.

We were trying to help out financially with finances when he and his wife became short of cash on bills. Now that he has left some of our basic beliefs and is walking a dangerous path, we no longer help them out financially. We have told them if they come to our home, they will always have food, drink that we have to share and all of our love, but that when here, they have to abide by our beliefs in our home.

Right now, I do not hear very often from my son. (My mother's heart just longs for contact!) I call him about once a week and before we hang up, I always tell him how much I love him, but God loves him more.