We're not the ones lying. 'Homophobia', for example, is a falsehood of mammouth proportions: 1) The only thing I (or any Christian should) fear is God's wrath. Period. 2) If I were to fear anything else, there's a buffet these days, but homosexuals wouldn't rate. I feel sorry for you, but fear's just not a part of the equation. 3) Homo means 'same' and 'phobe' means fearing, so technically, 'homophobe' means fearing anything similar. I have two stereo speakers on either side of me as I type that're both black.