"Atheists: I'm sorry, can explain please. Give me a chance?"
At grammar? Sorry, but...:
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"I am 15 and my atheist cousin just passed on."
I feel for your loss, but if it was natural causes, it's a natural fact of life. Accept it.
"I think of her all the time screaming in hell. It is driving me crazy."
Thinking of the notion that a 'Hell' exists? You are crazy. Meanwhile on Planet Reality, she's decomposing in her coffin. Just as nature intended. Ultimately feeding the plant/tree life around her, for present & future generations to enjoy. I know that's how I'll end up. Facts prove this. I am not afraid.
"I know it will be for her own good"
And now you know why you fundies are so loathed and detested. Then you wonder why the likes of Quakers and Unitarian Universalists aren't? Just listen to yourself.
"but it is still hard to think about when I love God so much."
I bet the thought of your late cousin 'burning in Hell' gets you hard, though.
"It just hit home what is in store for you non-believers."
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"Forgive me"
I forgive you. See? Not that difficult. 'To err is human, to forgive divine'. And I'm an Atheist. There's many that won't - and with what you said, coupled with the way you said it, I can completely understand why they don't. And won't. Oh, and speaking of understanding...:
"and I hope you understand."
Your motives for what you said - and why? Nope, I just don't get it. And I don't want to get it, neither. You don't hear Humanists speaking, acting, thinking, or even believing the way you do, pal.
Ergo, the more than infinite superiority of Atheism. QED.
Here endeth the lesson.