(In response to many females saying it's painful to have sex without intercourse. Kohl the Krazy Katholic weighs in)

If the problem is only that it is painful for many of you if you are not wet, perhaps you are called to suffer a little, in the act, as part and parcel to your suffering in the birth of the child, i believe that sex even within marriage always has in it at least some sin, venial if done out of duty, sex since the fall is to prone to lust which we cannot control in our fallen state, thus sin is virtually inevitable, yet this the dirty deed, is also permissible as we some are also called to be fruitful.