Frankly, lesbians fight harder and sneakier (is that a word?) that gay men.

On reason is that women (I mean women in general, not just lesbians) have had to fight for many things throughout history (now, some things were given Biblically to all humans, but were perverted by governments and religions down through history - some things that women have fought for are not Biblical . . .) and have made women somewhat hardened and more bold. So, since a lesbian woman is a "double minority" gives them more power than gay men.