[Responding to a poster who is planning to have an abortion]
Jeez woman it's called USING A CONDOM
if you can't handle the responsibility of taking care of a kid there is adoption
you are the sickest person i have ever heard of
you don't deserve to be cheered up you deserve to become infertile and then sent to jail murderer!
I'm 14 and i guess i know more about birth control and condoms than you do
keep your legs closed and no more babies will get killed
your a murderer and you should go to hell
i wouldn't even cheer you up if you had one abortion
if you don't want a kid then
1)use a condom and/or birth control
2)keep your legs closed aka abstinence
3)get your fallopian tubes tied
Source(s):
I hate people who get abortions
they should be ILLEGAL
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Doesn´t sound fundie, especially as he dares to give her the advice of using a condom (or other contraceptives) ;)
That said...
the user states that he is 14 and, looking at his posting, I definitely believe him ;)
"I'm 14 and i guess i know more about birth control and condoms than you do"
I read your post, and no, you don't know much about birth control or condoms.
@Eden: I think the fundieness comes in her saying that abortions should be illegal.
That being said, that whole thread made my brain bleed. The question asker seems to be a troll just feeding on the vitriol of others, and the ones calling her a whore without saying anything constructive aren't any better. Especially this stupid twat quoted here. I hate to say it but I hope she gets an unplanned pregnancy and has to go through a painful pregnancy just so she realises WHY we need abortion legal.
Edit: Fixing pronoun in the first line >.>
"I remember being 14, and believing I knew everything about everything. So, dimondrw7 is let off."
What?
I remember being 14, and (while being dopey about a lot more things than I am now), knowing better than to talk this way to someone I didn't know.
So, wrong answer. And I'm glad I didn't go to school with you.
Oh, don't worry, MPW. I'm all grown up now. And I realise that judging how someone behaves/thinks when they're 14 will, most likely, have little resemblance to the adult they will grow into.
I don't advocate the "five-cross-the-eys" method before the kid hits age 10, but after that age, the little bastard should know better than to talk to adults that way, even if he can't see them.
Someone apparently never thought that birth control and other contraceptives sometimes DON'T work. Also, why should she get her fallopian tubes tied? Just because she doesn't want a child now does not mean she won't want one in the future.
I won't even remark on the whole abstinence bit...but sexual repression does lead to rather bad consequences.
Your whore mother should have kept her legs closed, kid.
On the other hand, she got fucked up the arse and you were the result.
Well - since the orignal question was posted by a troll - they certainly succeeded in what they wanted to accomplish.
But I agree - this little dimwit, dimondrw7, needs to be taken out to the woodshed. Yes, some can be put down to being 14 (if true). But, at 14, I knew better than to talk to anyone, especcially an adult, in that fashion. The intrawebs are cool, but it does let folks like this vent their nerdrage without any personal restraint. I wonder if s/he acts like that IRL?
"I'm 14 and i guess i know more about birth control and condoms than you do"
I'd be willing to bet you've never held either products in your hand, let alone used them.
How pleasant for you that you've never experienced birth control sabotage and/or rape as part of an abusive relationship. How nice for you that you've never been sexually assaulted. How nice for you that you can afford birth control and live near a place that dispenses it without judgement. How nice that you have never experienced birth control failure. How nice for you that you and your relationship is happy being sexless if you can't get birth control. How grand it must be to have health insurance that could cover the costs of pregnancy, birth and child-raising. How nice it must be to know your partner will support you and won't skip out on you. How nice it must be to have Mommy and Daddy paying all your bills so you don't have to work to put food on the table, and you don't have to worry about losing your job will affect your ability to care for a child. How pleasant to not have to worry that another pregnancy could badly affect your existing children's futures, your finances, your health or your job. How nice to know that you can sit in judgement of others, whose circumstances you don't know, because YOU have never made a mistake in the heat of the moment. How nice it must be to be perfect.
You classist, sexist, inconsiderate, know-nothing little brat.
In case some of you missed it, the 14 year old kid is responding to someone who is claiming to have had 6 abortions already and is going for her seventh. I think the response of this person is acceptable, even though the woman is an obvious troll.
And then it happens to you and everything changes. I don't believe in karma, but irony happens.
Tazildanda: You have a point, however, in terms of morality and lifestyle choices, civil liberty, etc. There is no difference between one's having the first, fifth, or twentieth abortion. It's either all right, or it's all wrong if you mind the business of others and subscribe to the soul-injecting cartoon version of the universe.
You know, when I was 14, I never acted like I knew everything, regardless of how many times people said I did know everything. I certainly didn't act like I had a monopoly on morality. Maybe other 14-year-olds should take the hint.
"I'm 14 and i guess i know more about birth control and condoms than you do"
Oh noes, another teenager's mind ruined by teh ebil secks edumication.
Okay, so I clicked the link to the OP, and dude, I'm pro-choice, but seven abortions? Gotta be a troll, but assuming it's not, even I think that's excessive and downright unacceptable; condoms and BC do not fail that often unless you're doing it srsly wrong, so you need to learn how to use them correctly, get your tubes tied, or stop having sex altogether. Abortion should be a last--not first--resort.
As for that 14-year-old's response, lol. You're not going to "help" (i.e. talk her out of an abortion) with self-righteous anger. But, hey, at least you're advocating condoms and BC unlike most pro-lifers.
In conclusion, I wish I could click the "WTF?!" button about six times for this one.
Let's see how he feels when he gets his first girlfriend pregnant.
Then again, we might have to wait a long, long time.
When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.
~ Mark Twain
Let's put it this way:
This person probably doesn't remember the turning of the millennium. There's a good chance they weren't even in school yet when 9/11 happened.
So, um, they should really keep their mouths shut.
I remember being a young teenager too. And while I thought I was right (how many teenagers don't?), I *never* broadcast my opinion with such vitriol (and I'd have had the brains not to mention my age, as well). So, um, to sum up:
This is why we don't let 14-year-olds vote.
Let's hope diamondrw7 starts thinking on their own before 2016 (or, dear god, 2012).
breakerslion: I would have to disagree with you. Abortion should really be used as a last ditch effort to save the life of the mother or to terminate an early pregnancy that is truly unwanted. There is a difference between getting abortions just because you chose to live a slutty life and getting an abortion because there is no other alternative. So no, I don't think we have to fully support someone's right to get abortions if they are doing so recklessly Just like octo-mom, some things should have a line that shouldn't be crossed.
Yes, because every woman who might need to get an abortion is obviously a whore who can't keep her legs closed, rather than being a possible rape victim, or other such sexual assault.
That poster may have been an obvious troll (seventh abortion in one week?), but that response was fucked up shit.
> [Responding to a poster who is planning to have an abortion]
> Jeez woman it's called USING A CONDOM
It's a little bit late for that now, isn't it?
> I'm 14 and i guess i know more about birth control and condoms than you do
Ooh, I can barely remember what it was like when I was 14, too. I had very little clue how sex actually works back then. Or pregnancy. Or realities of parenting. I figured that the grown-ups probably know these things a little bit better than me, so I didn't give any "helpful advice" to people.
He's 14. Stupid, ignorant kid. I can remember holding ridiculously callous and hateful views at 14. I'm not sure this is fundie, but I think this kids parents are definitely not doing their job in terms of giving their child a healthy sense of empathy, reason, critical thinking, etc...
Members of fundamentalist religious denominations should not be allowed to educate their children.
Hard to believe sometimes that I was once a know-it-all fourteen year old like dimondrw7 .
Well, not quite like him. I wasn't a dick.
@Ozznova
I believe the saying is "If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament". It was made by Florynce Kennedy, a U.S. lawyer, activist, civil rights advocate, and feminist.
In some ways maybe we can excuse this kid, as she's only 14 and doesn't have the life experience to know better, especially as she's no doubt been indoctrinated with this stuff by her parents. Trouble is, the smart money says she won't change much as she gets older, but we can always hope.
I agree that this quote is stupid, but I'm offended by the amount of ridicule of 14-year-olds in the thread. Of course, it's almost impossible to be as intelligent as somebody who has a lot of life experience, and it's much easier for a teenager to be a complete idiot, but the amount of insults being doled out is pretty impressive.
For the record, I turned 15 less than a month ago. To assume it's relevant at all to the validity of my position is fallacious.
"When you’re a kid and you shit your pants, you feel embarrassed, but when you’re an adult and you shit your pants, you feel shame. Shame means that you’ve done something that there’s absolutely no excuse for, and kids have an excuse for everything, in that they’re kids."
http://www.tattooedbanana.com/?p=463
She's got a few more years...may she enjoy them o.O;;
I give her 2 years before she gets pregnant.
Other than that, how is this fundie?
Oh, and the original poster was a troll.
This post is full of fail.
Hm. Personally, I understand that pigheadedness is a common trait of 14 year olds, thus I can understand why some are defending him (okay, not defending as such - giving him/her a reprieve).
That said, the vitriol and the patronising attitude to an adult are quite deserving of the FSTDT mockery, too. We shouldn't condemn him as an ass for the rest of his life, but she would recognise that he's an ass right now.
"I'm 14."
All we need to know.
What 13rats said. (#993861)
I've been 18 for a few months, and I'm a lot better now than when I was 14. When I was 14, I was a lot better than when I was 10, and so on. Children grow up. But to do so, they need parents, or at least parent byproducts. This teenager's parents must have failed to provide their offspring with a proper environment for growth.
And if any of you promote insult or violence against youths again, our Queen has promised to send the Hive after you. She takes nymph-care very seriously. >:3
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