It is best to practice abstinence when you are dating AND even when you are engaged. Also know that these are your last months or year of being with God as a single person. Honor this time and enjoy your quiet time alone with God while you can.You belong to Him now, but soon your body will become your husbands . Why rush it? You have a whole marital lifetime for the enjoyment of marital sex. . Just try your best to honor Him during your days of engagement and wait for that special night....the honeymoon!
-Deuteronomy. 22:21-29, 1 Corinthians 6:15-20 and 1 Corinthians 7:5
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I seldom vote "Meh" but I did here. I consider my body to be my girlfriend's, so that's not implicitly proprietary.
It's your life. If you want to wait till marriage, hope you're happy.
Because there's absolutely no point in a women's life where her body actually belongs to HERSELF. Also,
"Every marriage is a same sex marriage. You get married, and then every night, it's the same sex."
Bill Maher.
Nope, if you're engaged you should do it (with protection) Some are incompatible when it comes to sex (sometimes because one doesn't care or care for it, sometimes because they're awful at it or too aggresive, sometimes because the parts don't mesh)
It is best to practice abstinence when you are dating AND even when you are engaged.
As a person who is engaged to the same woman who I knew my whole life and dated in high school, let me say this: Stay the fuck out of our sex lives.
Also know that these are your last months or year of being with God as a single person.
We know that the clock is ticking on life as single. That's what being engaged is... Though we have lived together for a year.
You belong to Him now, but soon your body will become your husbands.
My fiancee would kick me in the groin if I said her body was my property, and rightfully so. Her body is her property.
You have a whole marital lifetime for the enjoyment of marital sex. .
Let me guess. You also think the only right position is missionary with the guy on top? How dull...
Just try your best to honor Him during your days of engagement and wait for that special night....the honeymoon!
Let me say it again: Stay the fuck out of our sex lives.
Actually my husband and I did wait until our wedding night before having sex - it isn't a choice I would enforce on anyone else, but we both felt that that was right for us. It doesn't make me his property. And, despite this abstinence, we did a whole lot of premarital exploration that this prude would never have approved of.
Went to her site and checked it out. Wow is she nuts. Everything is wrong, kissing, touching, etc before marriage. And, apparently, only sex for procreation is OK after marriage. Funny thing - there is a question linked about "my husband asked me to do kinky things" but the Q&A is missing from her site. Wonder why? After all, the husband is the head of the house according to her, and women should obey...
SON:Ooh, ooh, daddyyyyyyy! I want a woman toooo! Can I have one pleeeeease?
DAD: You can have one as soon as you're over this ghey thing.
SON: Mkay... :(
My body remains my own FOR LIFE. Unless my husband decides to skin me on my wedding night and wear my body like MIB's "Edgar suit," it remains MY BODY. Not his. MINE.
I am no one's property. We are all children of the Divine. What kind of monster would enslave his own children?
BTW, I totally sent her an email about the "Edgar suit" thing, with the accompanying note that if a married couple really becomes "one" at marriage like the Buy-ble says, then both bodies are jointly owned by both husband and wife. Can't wait to see her try to get her head around that one.
NOOO thanks, I waited for a man I trusted, outside of marriage, and don't regret it for a second. After years of "teen abstinence for jeebus" brainwashing about sex being this magical, mystical, life-altering, taboo experience, I felt a bit ripped-off by the church to find that it is just another [though enjoyable if one has an experienced partner ;-)] bodily function. I'm glad I didn't wait, now my honeymoon can be enjoyable, instead of walking awkwardly around some beautiful tropical island feeling like I sat on broken glass and, if I were fundy, regretting getting married to an inexperienced fumbler who doesn't know a thing about pleasing a woman, just because my hormones couldn't take the strain of waiting anymore...
... sigh... another person who FAILED to even study the Bible.
In the three passage he gave...
1. An extreme view of faithfulness (note it also applies to the man who screwed a married woman).
2. Don't screw a prostitute...
3. "Become one". No, you don't belong to your husband, you and your husband become a single entity. Namely, you belong to each other. Sort of like "you complete me" kind of thing.
You know, I used to be like Cee Cee here when I still practiced religion. But it took me becoming an atheist to realize that other people's sex lives are none of my business. I hope she learns that some time.
In my defense, though, I was raised Catholic. The Catholic church thinks that yours and everyone else's sex life is their business.
"... but soon your body will become your husbands. ...
How Freaky to have found this quote on Friday !
But seriously, how does this work after your body becomes your husband's? Do you two go through the rest of your lives being gay male clones, or what?
"You have a whole marital lifetime for the enjoyment of marital sex.."
NOOO! Even when married, you're not supposed to enjoy it, ever, under any circumstances! You slut!
You belong to Him now, but soon your body will become your husbands.
Remember, He sees you when you're sleeping; He knows when you're awake. He knows if you've been bad or good ... oh wait - that's Santa Claus. No, God's just sitting up there watching you to make sure you don't bonk each other until you have a piece of paper from your home town of Dipwad, Kentucky saying you're married.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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