I wasn't born gay and neither were you.
You don't speak on the behalf on anyone other than yourself.
It was a path I chose, a sexually perverted choice on my behalf.
So because that's your opinion then it also be the opinion of every other person on the planet? Are you so arrogant that you believe that you are capable of making descions for everyone else?
One more thing, When exactly was it that you decided you would be attracted to men as opposed to women, and why can't you simply just change your mind now? I think you already know the answer to that question.
If I was born that way, others, such as child molesters, drunkards, adulterers, thieves, could claim the same thing.
First off, no it doesn't. Secondly, whether you claim something or not has no bearing or effect on what another person can claim on their behalf, nor would it effect the veracity of their claims anymore than being born a certain skin color means that rapists, drug addicts, or murderers can claim that they "were born that way". It is simply a poor excuse.
Even if you think you were born that way, God still condemns it.
Newsflash Tony, not everyone believes in, or cares what you say your "god" condemns or disapproves of.
He wouldn't make you that way and then condemn you to hell.
The bible and christian mythology are full of examples of just that. According to your theology a person must accept Jesus Christ as their lord and savior. So what happened to all the millions of people who lived and died over the centuries who never once heard of Christ? Christianity did not start out as a worldwide phenomena and took centuries, and in some cases more than a millenia to reach them.
What was the fate of all those people who didn't believe in , or ever even so much as hear the name jesus? According to your bible they were sent to hell to suffer for all eternity. Some of those millions we also gay, did they suffer in hell for that, or because the weren't christians. Or did they have to suffer twice as much because they were not christian and they were gay, even though they never knew that they were not supposed to be either and your "god" did not see fit to enlighten them on that matter?
So tell me this, If your "god" dosen't want any of his beloved creations to be condemned to hell then why did your "god" allow those millions upon millions of people to live and die with no hope for salvation whatsoever? If those are the acts and nature of your supposedly benevolent "god", the your "god" is unworthy of worship.
It was your choice, so turn from it.
Then why can't I find a single person, gay or straight, who ever remembers making a choice about who they were going to be attracted to? Why do I not remember deciding that I would attracted to the opposite sex rather than the same sex? Why can I not make myself be attracted to someone of the same sex not, not matter how hard I try to?
Sexual attraction, as you point out yourself later in your post, Is not subject to the will. You can no more make yourself attracted to the opposite sex than a straight person can make themselves attracted to the same sex. Sexual attraction does not work that way, and if your "god" is the author of all this, as christian theology claims he is, then you "god" is also responsible for a persons sexual attraction, because that person certainly isn't.
Even if you still have the desire after you have repented, fellowship with Christians, personal prayer, and studying God's word will help you refrain and stay right with God
All that should make it quite appearent to you that is the way you were born, and you have surronded yourself with people who have a vested interest in making you think otherwise, just so they can make them feel that their religion is right.
You may never have a heterosexual relationship and you may be single the rest of your life,
BECAUSE YOU ARE GAY! Deal with it rather then making you life miserable with all the self loathing and self condemnation.
but as stated above, life here on earth is a vapor.
Then your life has no meaning for. I'm sorry to hear that.
We aren't here long but we have heaven to look forward to if we remain faithful unto death.
According to your theology if you so much look at someone with lust the you have essentially commited the act, If you look upon someone with hatred in your heart the you are guilty of murder. Yet here you are asking people to live a life filled with self hatred. So what makes you think that heaven would await you in the first place?