Quote# 75730

So the raped person can never be responsible for the rape? They can never be at fault it seems. No matter how much they seem to desire being truly dominated and no matter how much they 'let it happen', they are never the one to blame? You can never say she was 'asking for it'. . . but to be raped, that's the gift of ulitmate control, complete dominance and complete submission.

e_i-2, Love-shy.com 133 Comments [8/31/2010 3:47:24 PM]
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You guys should shut up and just be thankful you will never understand the under-appreciated utter living hell of being a real life 40 year old virgin (not through choice) and wandering how much of a mutant you must be to have got this way.

Fact of the matter is you can go on all you want with the usual bollocks about how its coz of how I view women etc. (I wasn't bitter UNTIL I ended up in this situation FYI. Try not to mix cause and effect!) But the truth of the matter is some people are just born with part of their brain missing that makes it physically impossible to flirt or communicate attraction or be witty or charming or anything else you need to do to click with someone and be attractive. Physically fucking impossible! Part of brain missing! Born without some inate ability everyone else fucking just has! You were born with the inate ability so you will never fucking understand and never realise how damn lucky you are and so all you can do is take the piss. Fuck you all!

I DON'T agree with advocating rape though!!!

1/11/2011 4:05:24 PM


Rape should be considered a bigger crime than it is, I know people that go to cops, and they take it lightly. It must be a christian thing, the idea that rape is ok.....well its not ok.

1/11/2011 4:12:51 PM


"One day, someone or something will pull the plug on that forum and every member will die alone."

Hey, yellow-rabbit, swap places with me or anyone on that forum. Face that prospect, nay CERTAINTY, for yourself and maybe you'd understand what that really feels like and wouldn't make light of it.

Then you'd know dieing alone and a virgin, having missed out on pretty much 70% of the entire human life experience. Having never had a chance to have a life, really is not something to make light of!

And not because your misogynist (as I said before don't mix cause and effect) but because you lack some ability everyone else in the world has that makes you simply missed off the dating game.

1/11/2011 4:15:12 PM

love-shy: If you don't want to be seen as a rape apologist, don't associate with them. Or were you born without the part of the brain that lets you understand that?

1/11/2011 4:28:38 PM

Okay, I'm not the person who posts under the name of "love-shy", but I'd still like someone to explain to me how:

1. The Dnepropetrovsk Maniacs (3 Guys 1 Hammer video)
2. Hitler

Had girlfriends if love-shys don't get gfs because they're such "horrible" people.

See, it's really pathetic to me. You can be the most horrible, most asshole person on the planet, as long as you don't have the few flaws these "love-shys" have it's "okay". And what flaw do they have? Oh, they are not loud enough and know their place, that's SO HORRIBLE.

And "love-shy", just use a prostitute for now. Fuck fear of STDs, fuck the police, just do it. Pick a decent one with an apartment and you should be fine. Never pick them up on the street. (Disclaimer: I will not be held legally liable if you do follow my advice, ultimately it's your decision)

"If you don't want to be seen as a rape apologist, don't associate with them."

I'm pretty sure he just offered an explanation for e_i-2's behaviour.

"Rape should be considered a bigger crime than it is, I know people that go to cops, and they take it lightly. It must be a christian thing, the idea that rape is ok.....well its not ok."

Choose your words carefully, you're starting to sound like all the other fundies, just on the opposite side.

1/15/2011 7:34:00 AM

Quantum Mechanic

"So the raped person can never be responsible for the rape?"

No, never.

Now die in a fire.

1/15/2011 7:58:05 AM

Pedantic Speaker

@ Canadia:
I can think of at least one: Better raped than dead, because whatever harm rape causes, it is definitely more easily healed than death.

The Details (I read about it on TvTropes rather than devising it myself): The captors of a male and a female were going to kill her unless he could prove she was mated to him, and she was temporarily and as a result of their capture in no condition to even be capable of consent.
Also, females of certain species, such as the domestic ferret, must have sex during oestrus or die (in the case of the ferret, from anaemia caused by oestrogen toxicity).

1/26/2011 12:32:41 AM


Umm... O_O

Usually rapists don't bother asking what one desires, do they? Or have i've got something wrong here? Or is this the likes of "oh, she blinked her eyes right as she passed me, SHE MUST WANT IT BAAD!!!" ???

Dude, i suggest getting some treatment.

1/26/2011 4:07:40 AM

Maledom/femsub fetishist

Submission. Is. Not. Rape.

Submission is about freeing the individual and consensual power exchange. Rape is about violating the individual and theft of power. A rape victim is destroyed; they have nothing left of themselves to submit.

If a woman means yes, she will say it. If a woman means no, she will say it. And if a woman means "throw me down on the bed and take me as savagely as you can," SHE. WILL. FUCKING. SAY. IT.

4/25/2011 12:41:36 PM

More maledom/femsub fetishist

In conclusion, nobody wants rape. Everyone wants to be LISTENED to.

4/25/2011 12:43:30 PM

Liberal Christian

Rape is never justified in any situation. If a woman desires to be "dominated" than she must give consent first.

4/25/2011 12:45:15 PM


If you're enjoying the rape, it isn't rape.

5/3/2011 5:39:05 AM


You gotta be kidding me, this is a crazy kind of stupid...DIAF (no seriously, do it, right now, PLEASE?).

5/3/2011 11:35:01 AM


If she lets it happen it isn't rape.
I don't see why this is so hard for you to understand.

5/22/2011 1:49:07 AM



I can sympathize with any inability, real or perceived, to communicate effectively with the opposite sex. I can communicate with boys, but at age 19 I've only ever had one boyfriend in my life and he turned out to be gay. I'm a virgin and to be honest I sometimes wonder if I'll end up as a 40-year-old virgin too. Sometimes I wonder how much of a mutant I must be, too. But I don't act bitter towards boys for it. I love boys. They're cool. It's not like I can't talk to them, I talk to them all the time. They just are never attracted to me. Being "loveshy" doesn't give you the right to take it out on the opposite sex. I'm not saying you do. But you said yourself that you're bitter. And it doesn't give people like e_i-2 the right to advocate rape. We're not bashing this guy for being loveshy, we're bashing him for being a rape apologist.

And citation needed about an actual part of your brain being "missing". I highly doubt that. Firstly, there isn't a specific region in the brain that corresponds to "talking to women". If you had actual brain damage it would likely affect more than just your ability to talk to women. I doubt that it's "physically impossible" for you to talk to women. Psychologically I don't doubt that it's impossible, and I know there's a very fine line between "physically" impossible and "psychologically" impossible, such as in cases of mutism. But I doubt that your problem is wholly or even partially physical. I'm not saying it isn't, I'm just saying that you need to back that up.

Anyway, peace to you. Hope you find someone.

6/1/2011 9:28:26 AM


Love-shy.com: A refuge for rape apologists, misogynists, and other bits of garbage.

6/15/2011 11:43:40 AM

Quantum Mechanic

What a piece of disgusting shit.

8/28/2011 2:52:12 AM

If a person desires to be truly dominated, he or she isn't really raped when he/she and his/her partner enact a raping scene. But that involves having a safety word, and in reality, the submissive person is in control.
It's kind of like wall-climbing with safety net; it gives a taste of danger, but it isn't really dangerous.
Some people like to be playfully spanked, but very few people like to be beaten to a bloody pulp. See the difference?
Probably not...

Where you go wrong, e_i-2, is in the words "no matter how much they seem to desire".
As long as you only guess that they want to, you are completely to blame if they don't want to.
If she really is asking for it, you'd know, as you would have agreed on a safety word.
If you haven't agreed on anything, the default safety word is something like No, Stop, Don't, Please or Help. That is the key for you to stop whatever it is you're doing, apologize and leave.

You seem to want to be raped, judging by your last sentence.

8/28/2011 3:57:39 AM


@ love-shy visitor
"physically impossible to flirt or communicate attraction or be witty or charming or anything else you need to do to click with someone and be attractive."

Most people find it hard to do these things. The more we like a person, the harder it becomes, as you want too much, try too hard.
I liked a guy once in the local Red Cross association. When we went on a date, it all went downhill, the situation was so "artificial", neither of us could act natural.

For many people it doesn't just click during a date. It can take years of being friends with someone, and slowly it grows into something more than just friendship.

Why not just interact with people of both genders in a non-dating environment. When the pressure of being attractive here and now is gone, it's easier to be yourself. At least you can see that all women don't like the same thing. Some of us like geeky guys with no muscles and a fixation on Dr Who. For example.

8/28/2011 4:57:13 AM


What about BABIES who are raped, asshole? Were they "asking for it" too?

9/2/2011 5:19:00 PM

If she asked for it then it isn't rape.

If you count a hot dress or pants that make her ass look good as "asking for it" you are a sick fuck.

1/8/2012 6:52:07 PM


http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html - "Flirting is a basic instinct, part of human nature". Yeah it doesn't always go to plan, Ling, but it is based on basic instincts everyone has, right? Yep- except one in every million people is born completely without those instincts.

Some people are born without the ability to learn how to walk so why is this so hard to imagine some people are born without the basic instincts necessary to flirt? And before you say no scientific evidence- well I have to fucking LIVE with it so that is evidence enough for me!!!

And don't tell me everyone has the same problem or similar bollocks- just how many people who haven't even had their first kiss at 24 have you met?!?!

4/29/2012 4:13:53 AM

Rape is not a BDSM scene. Rape is not safe. Rape is not sane. And (most importantly) rape is not consensual.
Learn the difference.

6/17/2012 10:12:53 PM


GDIAF, please.

6/17/2012 11:54:56 PM


If someone wants to be "dominated" and they consent to it, then that's okay. Forcing yourself on someone who doesn't consent is always rape, no matter how much you think they were asking for it.

6/18/2012 10:50:21 AM

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