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“We see a lot of heterosexual men who are addicted to sex and, because culturally and biologically women aren’t as readily available to have sex at all times of the day, these men will turn to gay men for gratifi­cation.... Imagine what that does to their psychology. ‘Now am I gay? What do I tell my wife?’ ”

Craig Gross, Newsweek 86 Comments [12/4/2011 1:13:05 PM]
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Brendan Rizzo

You fail biology forever.

12/4/2011 1:23:45 PM

Giardano Bruno

No. Straight men go for women and gay men go for men.

Of course if they all think this way it could explain a lot...

12/4/2011 1:28:38 PM


What planet do you come from? Men don't suddenly turn gay. If there aren't enough women they turn to porn.

12/4/2011 1:29:47 PM


Yeah, I see where you've gone wrong. You've got gay sex confused with wanking.

12/4/2011 1:33:54 PM


these men will turn to gay men for gratifi­cation


Sure, there are bisexuals who like "a little bi on the fly", but that's because they're bisexual.

Your promiscuous heterosexual male won't "go gay" to get his rocks off. It doesn't work that way.

Where on earth did you ever get that idea?

We see a lot of heterosexual men who are addicted to sex

Really? Addicted? I've met one, one - as in "1", in my life that I knew about. Probably a few more I wasn't aware of, but you "see a lot"? Really? Addicted?

Where do you see these lots? How do you know? Addicted? Are you sure they don't just enjoy sex and pursue it?

Do you know what "addiction" means?

And, who are this "we" you speak of?

Sounds to me like another fundie preacher using over-exaggeration, fantasy, and lies to start off a sermon, following the typical fundie recipe.

12/4/2011 1:43:31 PM

Yeeeeaaahhh... no amount of not having sex is going to make me turn to guys for it and that's a bizarre example you have there. I mean, a guy can't have sex with his wife, so he turns to other guys? No. Straight guys who cheat on their wives can very easily cheat with other woman and do so all the time. I think you are projecting your own feelings onto others - It's fine that you're starting to wonder if you might be gay, but don't try to warp it into something it's not by saying that straight guys go through the same thing.

12/4/2011 1:43:56 PM

Bad Wolf

No, just no

Gay doesn't work that way, and neither does addiction.

Just curious - what did you tell your wife when you discovered you were really gay all these years?

12/4/2011 1:54:11 PM

I'm pretty sure straight men who don't have willing women available would rather turn to their hand rather than another man.
Oh wait, but that's a sin that makes men blind and gives them hairy palms, amirite?

12/4/2011 1:55:29 PM


So if only women were more "whorelike" we could cure the gay?

12/4/2011 2:17:05 PM


Homophobic, sexist, and failing to understand basic biology all in a couple of sentences?

I think that's a record.

12/4/2011 2:20:29 PM


Can't. Stop. Laughing.

12/4/2011 2:31:32 PM


Protip: you don't 'turn' gay. And you think men have more time on their hands than women or something?

12/4/2011 2:35:30 PM


" ‘Now am I gay? What do I tell my wife?’ "

Why should you spoil her life by involving her in your sordid secrets. I'm sure she already knows what you keep in your closets and the upper drawers of your dresser...if she doesn't then she is probably just as clueless as you.

And yes, in most states, requiring your wife to dress up like a little boy before sex is grounds for divorce.

12/4/2011 2:37:43 PM


'because culturally and biologically women aren’t as readily available to have sex at all times of the day'

The human vagina seals itself between 2am and 6pm. Every woman goes through this. Didn't you guys know that?

12/4/2011 2:46:25 PM


Hi Craig (sinner 2392145230953572057352385285),

I'm sorry to disappoint you, but the only correct sentence in your drivel is:
"Now am I gay? What do I tell my wife?"


12/4/2011 2:58:42 PM

D Laurier

Only those men who are already gay, will turn to gay men for sex.
Straight (ie;hetrosexual) men will simply spank the bishop, or find a woman who IS readily available.

12/4/2011 3:13:45 PM

Street Sharks

Ehh part of that is more or less true. Heterosexual guys are more than willing to have gay sex if they can't have sex with women. Look at any prison in America. I'm sure most of the guys in prison thought they would never resort to that but masturbation can only sustain you for so long. Humans need intimacy.

That said, this has no real application to the outside world. If a man is not being pleased by his wife, he can generally find a woman on the side.

12/4/2011 3:22:12 PM



12/4/2011 3:35:20 PM


Imagine that, a married gay man to a woman who seeks out affairs with men. Why, if their gayness was acceptable to their family and friends, they probably never would have gotten married to a woman who he will never be able to love the way she deserves.

Ah, the religious masses...destroying lives for thousands of years.

12/4/2011 3:48:45 PM

I vote no. Another man just is not the same thing as a woman for sexual gratification. Besides there are lots of women around, the problem is finding one for sex. In my area at least there are no gay guys (or women) cruising with signs saying "do me now".

I admit I dont follow the "...biologically women aren't as readily available ... ". When did women start with daily hours for sex ?

It's a good thing most cities do not have wandering sheep or ducks.

12/4/2011 4:49:09 PM


Sure, because if a man can't have sex with a woman every time he gets an erection, he will magically become attracted to other men. It all makes perfect sense now!

This not only blames women for men being gay or bisexual, it justifies all sorts of inappropriate behavior such as sexual harassment and assault, with the incredibly sexist old saw of "men are sex-mad dogs who can't help themselves."

12/4/2011 4:52:30 PM


Gay men are just straight nymphomaniacs?

12/4/2011 4:57:04 PM

Kevin Klawitter

There IS truth to the statement that sex addicts sometimes resort to homosexual sex to satisfy their needs (see the new movie "Shame"), but that doesn't mean the addicted man is necessarily gay.

12/4/2011 5:11:25 PM


Yes, I have known more than a few gay men get married, try to be "straight", etc. But eventually sought men. Many of them even have children. But I suspect that if they lived in a more.....um....accepting world, they would never marry a woman. I think that is the better solution. It really isnt fair to a woman who thinks her husband is straight, only to find our years later. But as alluded to above, those men feel compelled, or just dont fully understand themselves at the time they get married. I think a lot of those situations would go away if they lived in a world not dominated by a religion that imposes such social pressure to be heterosexual.

12/4/2011 5:25:40 PM

Old Viking

A few do without immediate gratification without discernible ill effects.

12/4/2011 5:37:11 PM

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