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[OP was asking thoughts on her daughters situation - she is 23, divorced, dating "unbeliever" and *gasp* pregnant.]

I don't believe that compounding her sin by marrying an unbeliever will make things better for anyone, probably the child most of all. There are reasons why God says not to do that.

I think if she ever hopes to be a good witness to her boyfriend, she needs to break things off with him and move out with the baby. Then he may see that she is serious about her faith now and that maybe he should take her words seriously too. To stay with him is to further damage her integrity and witness to fear God and obey Him.


iSong6:3, RaptureReady 46 Comments [12/26/2011 5:09:31 AM]
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aaa

This is remarkably bad advice for anyone.

12/26/2011 4:24:30 PM

Panz

Ah Christianity, breaking up loving families for the lose.
Hell, I thought they disliked breeding pairs to be split up.

12/26/2011 4:37:14 PM



she will probably beg him to come back at some point. i know its callous, but i kind of hope he tells her to fuck off, and get her god to help raise the baby.

12/26/2011 5:09:04 PM

TheJebusFire

But, I thought children needed to be raised by a mother AND a father!

12/26/2011 5:53:00 PM

Thinking Allowed

What iSong6:3 doesn't realize that her daughter is an "unbeliever" too.

12/26/2011 5:58:28 PM

whoanelly

Single mothers are damned 'cause they're harlots and jezebels, but if this woman marries the father of her child, she's fallen? Christianity sucks.

12/26/2011 6:52:38 PM

solomongrundy

mrsyoungie wrote
[OT quote]
I love quoting their bible back at them to prove them wrong.

Ah. but the mother's already been married once so according to the Bible she can't remarry anyway. But according to the posters on the thread that's Old Testament stuff that only applies to Jews, not Christians. Talk about cherry picking...

12/26/2011 7:32:15 PM

Hive

Oh, leave her the fuck alone. She's an adult and has every right to live her life the way she wants.

12/26/2011 8:58:36 PM

meraude

a man wants to raise his child,be a good father,and
the bastards call it 'sin'.
Fools.
My Dad married a young divorcee with a little girl,with the same intentions-his church called it
'sin,' as well and excomunicated him.
A good man,a good husband and father-
he was'nt the sinner,and neither are the parents of this child.

12/26/2011 10:02:37 PM

Neith

"Then he may see that she is serious about her faith[...]"

If she is divorced and had sex out of wedlock, then she obviously doesn't share your particular faith.

12/26/2011 11:46:10 PM

Percy Q. Shunn

jesus told me to tell you to shun that wanton harlot; treat her like the slattern she is, and reject the child, as he/she will be of the devil.

12/27/2011 5:32:05 AM

mrsyoungie

solomongrundy said:

"mrsyoungie wrote
[OT quote]
I love quoting their bible back at them to prove them wrong.

Ah. but the mother's already been married once so according to the Bible she can't remarry anyway. But according to the posters on the thread that's Old Testament stuff that only applies to Jews, not Christians. Talk about cherry picking..."

My quote was from Corinthians i.e. New Testament.


12/27/2011 8:36:02 AM

Papabear

Wouldn't that be a woman teaching a man something? That would put a woman in a superior position to a man. Just can't have that.

12/27/2011 11:05:11 AM

Anon-e-moose

"she needs to break things off with him"

Nah, been done before. Two words: Lorena Bobbitt. >_< XP

[/smartarse] X3

12/27/2011 11:34:24 AM

Observer

I'm beginning to notice that parts of speech mean nothing to fundies.

Witness (n., v., prep., con., inter., ger., adj., adv.)

12/27/2011 11:56:04 AM

D Laurier

Or maybe she will escape your cult entirely

12/27/2011 12:32:08 PM

Song

And yet it's TEH GAY that destroys families. Riiiight.

PS: OP and I--not related. Just putting it out there.

12/27/2011 6:23:57 PM

Shadoboy

So, being a religous nut is more important than a child?

12/27/2011 7:05:09 PM

Street Sharks

Rapture Ready: Tearing apart loving families for Jesus.

12/28/2011 9:44:07 AM

Fuck all of these people

Read the thread now, the daughter is having anxiety attacks over this "advice" of leaving him for the kids sake, and the mom/idiots there are saying it is God's judgment.

12/29/2011 9:35:44 AM

Godlovesme

iSong is afraid of Buzzardhut.

12/30/2012 4:30:31 PM
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