There is an ache in my chest. My heart feels hollow.
The full effects of feminism are coming to light. It's as if and atomic bomb has gone off and I'm the only survivor left unscathed. As I stand alone surveying the damage, the carnage, the wreckage, all I can do weep. There is nothing, and no one left to save.
I've all but come to terms with spinsterhood, the only thing I wont do is get a cat. Might get a dog. You see I've spent the last 2 years as a singleton. Having left a relationship of 3 years, I need that time away to heal and prepare myself for another. The time has been well spent and I feel more than ready to enter another relationship. My problem however is finding a man who is on the same page as me. The dating scene is a complete horror show. And no I'm not going to say there are no good men, there are plenty of wonderful, down right fabulous men. But they have been cut up, used up, abused, mocked, lied to, and basically abandoned by so called women. Women who enjoy and would love to see the male sex wiped out, or shriveled up in a corner crying somewhere. Women who want men to pay for history's "abuse" of women. Women who think it's funny to talk shit about their husbands, to take a man to the cleaners, to lie about paternity. I am so sick of your shit ladies, there is absolutely no excuse for your behavior! I feel no pity for the woman who cries there are no available men, because
you're same woman who screams "GIRL POWER" and "I don't need a man". When you lie alone in your bed at night crying, I hope it sinks in. I hope it hits home so hard it rocks you to your core. You're miserable and alone because you chose it. You choose not to see the truth, the destruction of the natural bond between men and women. Right now I have no pity on you, someday in the future, sure. I'll pray about.
Ladies the reason why we can't seem to find a man to have a relationship with is because we make them miserable, we have made ourselves undesirable. You can sit here and deny it all you want but it's the truth. You have created your pain by accepting feminism as your mantra. Now you have live with it. As well as I do.
So tonight my heart aches for all those men who are stuck in a world that no longer sees your value, a world where you are to be hunted and destroyed. And for you "Super girl", "Wonder woman", I hope karma gets you.......good. A barren womb I think is an appropriate punishment.
Kimberly, Kimberly's Lament 87 Comments
[9/1/2012 6:56:38 PM]
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Important note: "I don't need a man" doesn't auto-translate to "I need the absence of a man". At least, I hope it doesn't auto-translate like that to most. The idea is to require neither the presence nor the absence.
Anyway...it's not good to believe that women ought to be desperate for men. If men want their women to be dependent on them, then their psyches are corrupted with glory-thirst. Better to leave them be until they've weaned themselves of glory. And I doubt such ones are as numerous as you think.
9/1/2012 7:08:07 PM
Percy Q. Shunn
I think you mean "simpleton."
9/1/2012 7:10:23 PM
Why do I not for a second believe this was written by a woman?
9/1/2012 7:12:19 PM
Interesting...I know plenty of women in hapy and healthy relationships...myself included.
I am sick and tired of people blaming librals, feminists, or whatever for their personal problems.
9/1/2012 7:42:18 PM
Rabbit of Caerbannog
Good grief, Kimberly
's blog links to The Spearhead and MarkyMark's Thoughts on Various Issues. Good. Grief.
9/1/2012 7:58:37 PM
"My heart feels hollow."
That's funny because your head sounds hollow too.
9/1/2012 8:04:27 PM
Oh My Dog!
Feminism =/= hating men or whatever loony thing you think it means.
9/1/2012 8:36:52 PM
"You have created your pain by accepting feminism as your mantra. Now you have live with it. As well as I do."
- Welcome to Loveshy.com Kimberly
9/1/2012 8:45:07 PM
feminist, happily married thirteen years, completely in love with my man of a husband, beautiful children
so Bwaha! sour spinster lady, you hollow headed twit
9/1/2012 8:52:22 PM
I'll take 'maudlin self-pity' for ten, Alex.
9/2/2012 1:12:17 AM
I'm male, married, and am neither being hunted nor destroyed. Nor am I remotely convinced that the composer of the above drivel is female.
9/2/2012 1:34:08 AM
Maybe the reason you can't find a man is because you're a self-obsesseed, self-pitying, moron. Just a thought.
9/2/2012 2:09:15 AM
Blame everyone but yourself for why you can't get a date.
9/2/2012 2:47:19 AM
"There is an ache in my chest. My heart feels hollow. "
We can only hope.
9/2/2012 2:49:21 AM
Da Rat Bastid(Quantum Mechanic)
"Heart attack? We can only hope."
*shakes his head in disagreement*
In the immortal words of Eddie Valiant
: "You need a heart before you can have an attack".
9/2/2012 3:00:29 AM
A abrren womb sounds fucking fantastic to me. Thanks.
9/2/2012 5:14:42 AM
This kind of makes me wonder what kind of man "she" wants.
9/2/2012 5:32:16 AM
I don't know any men who fit that description, almost all the men I know are secure in themselves and not afraid to show their softer side. I'm a feminist, happily married to the man I have loved for 25 years, and we have two cats. Not only spinsters have cats, ya know; most cats I know have "can-openers" that are in steady relationships.
Feminism is all about EQUAL rights, as in men AND women having the same opportunities, respect and responsibilities. Most feminists have fathers, brothers, sons and/or male friends who they cherish and appreciate. Many feminists ARE fathers, brothers, sons and/or male friends.
What you are talking about is misandry, which is fairly rare, and just as despicable as misogyny.
9/2/2012 5:39:58 AM
Ah, the other side of the "I can't get a woman, because I'm an asshole."
Maybe it's you, Kimberly, and not what women have done to men?
9/2/2012 5:40:03 AM
And, exactly how do you lie about paternity these days? We have tests for that...
Also, irony meter off the charts. Isn't she the one alone at night, crying?
9/2/2012 5:41:08 AM
"There is an ache in my chest. My heart feels hollow."
(ABOVE: The hollowness of the human heart)
Actually, a heart is supposed
to be hollow, it wouldn't be able to pump blood if it wasn't! *yukyuk*
Oh, and I don't believe a word of what you're saying, MISTER Kimberly!
9/2/2012 6:16:38 AM
Judging by the comment about 'taking three years to pray and prepare myself for another', the breakup was nasty.
Living with a supercilious, holier-than-thou isn't as easy as you think it is, Kimberly. Ask your ex.
9/2/2012 6:23:41 AM
Oh, dear, Kimberly, you remember the Calypso song:
I wonder why nobody don't like me
Or is it just that I'm ugly?
And I don't mean your face or your body.
9/2/2012 6:44:49 AM
Hypothesis: Kimberley's lament is due to feminism rather than craziness.
Outcome: Examining the blog post in evidence, we find the hypothesis completely disproven.
9/2/2012 7:35:47 AM
Raised by Horses
You may take the wig off now.
9/2/2012 7:46:55 AM
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