As another poster, I would go furthur and say the divorced woman or single, promiscuous woman should get nothing. Her life as a single mother should be hard. So hard, that other people see her as an object lesson for why children without a father is foolish and very undesirable. Every time we subsidize a single parent, we show other people that single parent-hood isn’t all that bad, what with all the help you will get. Yes, the reality may be that even with government assistance, it is difficult. But other people have their perception of reality, not reality itself.
I think it is better to do what will prevent 10 new children being created for life in a deficient home than help the 1 child already there. I agree that is hard, but I do not have limitless resources.
Widows and orphans are a different case; in those cases there was a father, and he was removed by death, not selfishness.
“Simple fact is never trust a woman. … It’s a simple strategy that every man should adopt.”
Very distrustful view… and I regret to say it, but one that seems partly true, at least financially. It is interesting to me that when God set up the economic system in Israel (about 1500 B.C.), women were not permitted to inherit the family land/farm, except in the case where there were 0 sons. ALL property of the father went to his sons. If he has 1 son and 10 daughters, the 1 son gets everything. And no, the farm was not divided if his marriage ended. Farm goes to sons, ex-wife gets… well, as far as I can tell, zilch. Which brings the point that, in order to continue to receive the benefits of marriage (home, food, clothing), the female had to remain a wife. Thus, a man did not have to trust his wife to not divorce him — she had the financial, daily motivation to remain with him.
But don’t expect agreement if you ask a church woman today to agree to a pre-nup, even when it is stated that this is to strengthen the marriage bond and conform to the Bible she claims to follow.
Dale, The Spearhead 48 Comments
[9/29/2012 5:25:58 AM]
Fundie Index: 62
Dale you are not just an insult to males but to all living things. I'd tell you to die but I respect the dead.
I am very sorry on behalf of all males for Dale existing
9/29/2012 12:18:00 PM
i was gonna say i'd want a pre-nup and give you the reasons, then i realised i was talking to a fucktard who wouldn't understand that i earn more than enough to feed and clothe myself, to own a house, some land, and well...
9/29/2012 1:15:03 PM
Good thinkin'. Keep 'em bare foot and pregnant... and poor. Then you can gits yerselfs some obeejent womens whats to scared to disobey ya. If ya don't like her, ya takes everthin' and leaves. If she don't like YOU, ya takes everthin' and leaves. Bible says its fair.
9/29/2012 2:52:01 PM
Translation: I think women should be permanently chained to an obnoxious, abusive jerkass like me out of fear of their children starving to death.
9/29/2012 4:22:05 PM
Just send money to your wife and children, fuckface.
9/29/2012 5:15:27 PM
Fundies Make Me Sick
Most single mothers are that way because the father left because he was a dick, just like you and every other person on that site.
9/29/2012 6:02:18 PM
I bet you're adamantly anti-abortion, too. You want to make sure those babies are born, then you want to punish them.
9/29/2012 6:15:24 PM
Your hatred of women is showing.
9/29/2012 8:09:05 PM
Stepford award, anyone? Anyone? Bueller, Bueller?
9/29/2012 9:17:07 PM
It certainly seems that this is a thinly veiled whinge against child support. The question must surely be, who in their right mind was desperate enough to sleep with a dickless retard like Dale?
9/30/2012 1:40:35 AM
You are a sick piece of shit, Dale, and in case you haven't noticed 1500 B.C. was a long time ago. You want to live in the distant past, go find a cave somewhere far away - but for humanity's sake, go and live there by yourself.
9/30/2012 3:44:49 AM
We need SSTDT, again
9/30/2012 5:21:08 AM
Dale, was it because she laughed AND pointed that first time in bed?
9/30/2012 6:38:34 AM
President Dwayne Elizondo Mountain Dew Herbert Camacho
I'm calling Poe. This is about as real as "Femitheist Divine" and castration day. MRAs like to play the victim, this does not fit in with that at all.
9/30/2012 2:25:19 PM
Correct me if I'm wrong, but doesn't it take two people to make a marriage, and two people to make a child? Does not the man have some responsibility here? Oh, silly me, of course not, these are fundies.
And just for the record I knew a single mother once who was often reduced to tears by her futile efforts to keep her son's father in his life, but he was a selfish asshole who wanted nothing to do with his children. Except, of course, when tax time rolled around.
9/30/2012 6:59:07 PM
Jesus - cured the sick, treated women equally and with compassion, loved children, hated money changers
Fundies - want the sick on the streets, women as slaves, children beaten into submission, think they can buy their way into Heaven
9/30/2012 8:19:59 PM
These kinds of men are very good at:
A) hiding their true selves until it's "too late" (or too late) for the woman
B)Finding women with such low self-esteem they consider this sort of man a protector
C)being a creepy man with a long string of sexual assaults in his history
D) Any combination of the above
10/1/2012 12:47:12 AM
This single mother with higher than median household income and her honors/AP/Principal's honor roll student daughter invite you to DIAF.
10/1/2012 4:04:32 AM
10/1/2012 6:04:43 AM
In the body of Christ, you sir, are the asshole.
10/1/2012 10:32:10 PM
"Other people have their perception of reality, not reality itself."
Couldn't put it better myself.
10/2/2012 12:01:22 AM
So... new ex got the house, car, kids etc, much, Dale? >:D
10/2/2012 6:57:38 AM
Dale: You're an idiot. The system God set up in Israel is a cultural system that does not pertain to any other period in time, but to itself. If you want to live like that find some nation that abides by it. In the meantime, stop oppressing women with your out-dated, misogynist and disenfranchizing opinions. Oh, also, if you're referring to the Bible, you may want to expand your reading beyond the Old Testament to the New Testament where the loving Son of God named Jesus introduces the idea of compassion to these idiots called the Pharises. Your views actually are very similar to their ideas, yet they agreed with crucifying Jesus.
12/1/2012 2:10:40 PM