Mathematicians start with that as an assumption
Right: "Axiom of Equality. ... For each variable x, the formula x = x is universally valid."
They're called axioms: "An axiom is a premise or starting point of reasoning. As classically conceived, an axiom is a premise so evident as to be accepted as true without controversy."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Axiom
Axioms aren't proven and can't be proven, simply because that proof would rely on the truth of the axiom itself being true, that again being circular logic.
Therefore, no, 1=1 hasn't been proven, simply because proving it would rely on the truth of the axiom being used to prove itself as true.
However, this means nothing at all. 1=1, i.e. x=x is "so evident as to be accepted as true without controversy."
God isn't an axiom, simply because God isn't "so evident as to be accepted as true without controversy." Axioms only work for the absolute basics. They can't be used to generalize for higher level subjects. E.g. one can't say "existence /= non-existence, therefore God and not Big Bang." It doesn't work that way.