Except for the higher rate of documented "domestic" violence between gay couples,
Citation needed. Last I heard, domestic violence was mostly perpetrated by (STRAIGHT) men against women.
and the higher documented rate of suicide in gay relationships,
Why might gay people have a higher rate of suicide? Do you think it might have something to do with, oh I don't know... HOMOPHOBIA? Being treated like you're sub-human and denied equal rights is kind of a bummer, and tends to make us pretty depressed!
and the higher rate of STDs amongst gays,
Citation needed that it's even significantly higher, but if it is, it's again because of HOMOPHOBIA making it harder for gays to get treatment. There is no physiological difference between gays and straights that would make either group more likely to contract STDs.
and the fact that EVERY "gay" family can not be sustained unless the recruit offspring
"recruit offspring"? You mean ADOPTION? Plenty of straight people adopt. It's only because you hate gays that you are characterizing it as some evil "recruitment" process. (P.S: Despite the fact that you might try to raise your children to be exactly the same as you, and stifle their individual, gay people do not necessarily teach our children to be gay in the same way.)
Also, there's no such thing as "gay family." There are gay people with families/families with gay people in them, but there isn't some sacred lineage of gayness passed down through the generations. Your family probably even has some gay people in it! And they weren't "recruited"; they were just born that way.
where as the norm, hetro families will be sustained through the natural pro-creation and according to the great plan.
Except for straight people who don't procreate, or adopt. And gay people who do procreate. "Gay" does not mean "physically incapable of producing offspring."
Yeah, I'd say they are almost exactly the same, except for all that other stuff that makes them completely different.
Except that all that stuff is complete bullshit and not actually different at all, and the few differences that actually DO exist are not inherent differences, but created by society's lack of acceptance. You fail.