"Effeminacy is a trait in males that generally contradicts traditional male (masculine) gender roles.
- Not necessarily. There are some men who speak with womanish voices and who are as butch as butch comes. Others have certain gestures and characteristics that some consider womanish or camp. So what! If you are unhappy with it, it's YOUR problem.
It is a term frequently applied to femininity; or womanly behaviour, demeanour, and appearance displayed by a man.
- Womanish is the word you want, I think. If you want to express such complex thought as anyti gay-prejudice, then you neeed better control of your vocabulary. Womanly is quite correct for a woman. It doesn't really apply well even to the campest man at all.
Masturbation is wrong because your not supposed to be having sex with yourself.
- Er, I have a nice penis. I like it a lot. It gives me pleasure. I hardly consider a wank, though, as having sex. It gives sexual relief and little else. Useful, but far from being totally satisfying as sex is. I have been told to fuck myself on the odd occasion. Now that would be an interesting sexual experience! Unfortunately I have neither the skill or length of penis to achieve this. I have seen it done on porn video and it seemed might satisfying to the chap who was doing it to himself! You should try it. It might work for you.
Homosexuality is NOT the natural expression of being born gay.
- Oh no? What's the difference. I thought that homos was rejected as a term by gays when they substituted that word generally in the 1960s. So what's your take on it? Can I have been wrong all these years?
No one is born gay.
- you know this how? Your pastor told you? Now how does he know anything about being gay, or does he have a little secret?
It is a "behavior/emotional" problem. You couldn't of known that you were born gay when you were 1 year old.
- First off, you need the modal verb 'to have'. 'of know' is totally bad grammar. Try 'have known' instead! Now try that for improving your language skills. Secondly, what one knows or doesn't know at 1, or 2 is irrelevant to anything in this argument. Stop splitting hairs. You know well enough what is meant by the term 'born gay'.
Ohioprof, Christ can set you free from bondage as He did for me.
- I happen to have a rather soft spot for some bondage. Why don't you come up and see me sometime! Seriously, Christ, assuming there is such a deity, didn't do anything for me or countless others. You are therefore self-delusional. One day your little house of cards is going to come crashing down and leave you with some severe, if not actually dangerous, psychological shit on your face.
He is waiting for you<-----!!!! and He loves you. He wants you<----- all to Himself.
- On reflection, is this a POE?